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BM picked up SS12 today. She was wearing a sweatshirt that said "wifey" on it, almost like she is trying to remind us all that she is married to GF. She was decent to DD2 and told us that DD is talking a lot more, which is true. After 5 years of promising, BM still isn't taking SS to Canada after a pick-up. We live an hour from the border. But she is driving an hour in the opposite direction of home to take SS to her old college stomping grounds... again for the millionth time. I am starting to think Canada won't happen like many other promised things in SS' life.
So my SD's are 12 and 10... BM has been very absent from their lives the last 5 years and before that when they were in home with her they was left alone,exposed to drugs, lice, filth, etc.
A few months ago I thought I was safe from SS20 moving back in to our house. Since some time last year SS20 was saying he wanted to move back in from his BMs house which he lives in since he left at 16. A house he left to despite custody agreements in place because he wanted freedom, no chores, pot and to be treated like a MAN... fast forward now he wants to move back in here because maybe the happy times have ended at the other house. He thinks that in our house, he will be pampered and catered to... because my SO is full-blown Disney.
SD14 had an 8th grade dance this evening. BM went shopping with SD last weekend and they bought a dress together. I think DH agreed to paying for half of it? Not 100% sure if he ended up yet or not.
Anyway, last night at dinner SD14 reminded DH that the dance will be Friday (today) and that BM will be dropping off the dance. DH asked for details, what time, etc. SD14 then told DH that BM also wants to take pictures after she gets ready. DH said "Well I know where she won't be taking pictures. NOT here!"
So, oh wow I gotta write to get this out or im going to go ballistic. Yep, its official, I have lost my shit!!! I cant recap much cuz I cant even think straight right now. But sd17 has been a pain in my ass and in my household since I married dh and moved in here 2 years ago. So we have mental health issues with her. But as I've been reading true north saga I am fully aware of the extra layer of bullshit thats piled on. Is there a problem... yes. And we have spent 100s of 1000s of $ addressing it.
SD62 is on disability and is also a drama queen. She has legitimate medical issues but because she exaggerates and lies so often, it's hard to determine the truth.
Dh wanted to meet in person with SD18, who he has not seen for 6 months. DH calls SD every night to ask about her day, etc, and lately, SD has been avoiding his calls. We found out why when we realized she knew her mom was planning to send attorney paperwork to DH regarding her college funding, without ever asking him about it once.
This has to be the pinnacle of parental alienation/manipulation. To kick your daughter out of the house with nowhere to go, DH saves her, and yet Crazy is still mother of the year.
After SD-almost-15 called the cops on DH a month ago, it's been radio silence from her AND Crazy, until a message last week from Crazy saying SD tried to commit suicide...at school...in the bathroom...with a lanyard.... and SD told Crazy about it a few days later.
So..to recap..SD the last of the Beaver spawn has turned 18 and graduated high school. Thank heavens....
Beaver..in running for worst mother...
1. Stole money from SD, took money out of an account that Beaver was guardian on. Never replaced it....to the tune of almost 3k.
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