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How it's going with SDiabla

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I have had the unfortunate experience of getting a lot of exposure to OSD28 this week. She doesn't ask permission or engage in a dialog but rather makes announcements, demands and assumptions, assumptions which are frequently completely wrong.

She treats DH and I as peers and seems to have no understanding of authority or her role in the family or her role in life in general. She bulldozes her way through life like a bull in a china shop. She has a hyper chicken with her head cut off energy, especially when she is agitated, which is often.

SDiabla28

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For privacy reasons I may make minor changes to facts or insignificant details:

SD28 Is still hanging around our house. It sounds like she will be headed out of here in a few days.

She's is acting ok, I would say significantly better than past tantrums but even when she isn't being horrible she still annoys me. It really is best for me to remove myself from being around her whenever practical.

Las Tres Diablaszilla Harpies are at it again with the manufactured drama

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BM lives in another state from us. BM currently has SD25 living with her and SD27 is there for a visit. Keep in mind that all 3 of these characters are college graduates. (On DH's dime)

OSD called to tell DH that all 3 of them are fighting. BM and YSD are HITTING each other and YSD is hitting OSD! BM, being the big, lying, manipulator POS that she is claims that her hand just "flies up and accidentally hit" YSD. Lol

BM and OSD are trying to get DH involved in problem solving the situation. Lol Again, they are in a different state and this is happening AT BM's House.

DH just asked me if I'd like to go for a hike with he and SD27

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What I thought in my head was "I would rather stay home and pull my nails off of their nail beds one by one" but what I replied instead was, "I think I'm going to hang back but you two go enjoy it!"

Thoughts, emotions and prayers appreciated as I navigate this week.

Morning Mia, I just started listening to "The Power of Now" by Eckhart Tolle on Audible. I love it and I get it!

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The plot thickens ... Update on SDiabla27

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So, it turns out that the "double date" at the bar as one of you steptalkers named it, was actually DH & SD27 and SD's girl friend & the friend's Dad AND SD's friend's Step-Mother was at the bar too! SD's friend is a SD! So let's keep count. Now it is "quality time" with 1. DH 2. SD's friend 3. SD's friend's Dad and 4. SD's friend's SM and last but not least, the Diabla27. It is NOT quality time if Elea joins. LMAO

I think my poor DH may be having a mental breakdown. Yesterday he allowed SD to invite girl friend and girl friend's BF over to our house.

Step Diabla 27 Strikes Again

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Once again SDiabla27 decided she wants to decend upon our home and stay for over a week. This girl-woman's MO is to be disrespectful, rude and snotty. When called out (by DH) her go to is "Whhhhhat did I doooooo?" Cue the waterworks and whiny voice. She's always the victim, just like BM.

She's already started up with her bullcrap before she's even arrived. She called DH and told him that on DAY 1 of her arrival she wants to go listen to music at a bar with just DH and one of her girl friends. DH told her that he'd ask me (if I care to join too) and then text her right back.

Nobody knows the trouble I see - YSDiabla24

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Nobody knows my sorrow

YSDiabla 24 is coming baaaaaaack ......... from visiting and vacationing in Mexico with OSD26.

As a reminder, YSD's most recent job "didn't work out" and now instead of getting another job, she decided to go travel with OSD. OSD can afford travel (for now) YSD? I doubt she can afford basic neccesities much less travel.