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UnCuffed during Cuffing Season

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Submitted by CLove on Tue, 11/12/2024 - 2:46pm

Tis almost the season and in our parts, tis the beginning of cuffing season. Cuffing season not in relation to getting arrested, but rather that thing people do during the winter time - coupling up so you have someone to keep you warm on the darl cold nights, someone to bring to thanksgiving dinners, someone to share the holidays with and then MAYBE into the whole new years eve thing. Then after all that you might just want to be single again (lol). Explore those options once the weather brightens and lightens.

$how me the Money$

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Submitted by CLove on Fri, 08/23/2024 - 11:21am

Welll, after much thought and of course reading all the comments on my last post, I spoke with my parents on the issue as well. I even spoke with the neighbor gal. She thinks its pretty shady that the kids not working and not in (free) college. Her new take on things is maybe Toxic Troll is lying about SD18s age to keep her a minor so that she can keep that section 8 nezt by the beach. 

Gathering my thoughts.

Husband and I had a BIG talk about the situation with SD18 Princess Powersulk Do Nada, Our lady of Inertia, goddess of Sloth.

Ways to Irritate and other things to do when there's other things to do.

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Submitted by CLove on Wed, 08/21/2024 - 1:03pm

So, in my adventures of life post graduation and 18, Princess Powersulk Do Nada, Our Lady of Inertia, goddess of Sloth hasnt done that much differently. Im just expecting things to be different, but they arent. Except child support is no longer going out 'da house.

Ive tried everything I could think of:

1. Task delegation

2. Asking arrival departure times/days

3. Printing out "how to get your id" and higlighting with added sticky notes.

4. Fake crying "this is stressing me out! I cant handle the powersulking!"

ot/goddess

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Submitted by CLove on Mon, 08/12/2024 - 4:45pm

I was relating my challenges to a friend of mine, who is a BM to 3 (BIG mistake HUGE), and she has sort of alternative ways of mentally dealing with stuff that is hard.

She came up with this gem:

When you think of SD18 Princess Powersulk Do Nada, try to think of her as a goddess...it might shift your attitude and thinking.

ROFFLMAO

So, I did try. All I could come up with was Princess Powersulk Do Nada, goddess of sloth, bringer of passive agressive victimhood.

Turn of the Screw aka a new day, a new week, same ole thing

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Submitted by CLove on Mon, 08/12/2024 - 12:12pm

A weekend feels like I lived a lifetime.

Here is where we are at today:

Friday I told husband that I dont like being the task mistress, it just never works out well for me, because years of not being supported and years of being ignored. Passive agressive ignore the texts stuff. Then I get irritated, react, she plays hurt feelings victim, husband swoops in to comfort her against the meanie, same ole play out.

Sorry no medals for you today aka riot act

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Submitted by CLove on Thu, 08/08/2024 - 3:12pm

So, this is what went down today:

Husband has been insisting I send a list to SD18 Powersulk Do Nada. Plus she needs to help with new puppy-who-pees-allover

I did this this morning (yep after you all told me not to and that I would be the "bad guy" again)

I get a response on this group text that "I am in so much pain, my calfs are giving out and I have a headache so I need a break today".

I just mentioned she can sit on a stool and watch puppy play outside.

Silence.

Puppy Daze and ID-ation aka no gold medal for us...maybe bronzish?

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Submitted by CLove on Thu, 08/08/2024 - 11:05am

We got a puppy. This is to be Husbands puppy. My Dad jokes "dont let him raise that puppy like he raised his daughters!"

To his credit he is walking in the am and walking in the PM, and hes being gentle with the critter. He has my buy in and my blessings, but that took a while.

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