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Well, wasn't sure if this was a good idea or not..but I did it anyway. I like to check my facts. ..so I e-mailed SD's former high school boyfreind..with a couple of questions about SD. I told him that her Dad thinks she "respects" me ...but I feel that is not the case and asked him what he knows.
He said that she would make remarks about me all the time to him..but he can't remember specifics.. AND he said he thinks she would go behind my back in a second because thats what she does to everyone else....
Very Interesting........huh
Remember when I said that biomom had spoken to a mutual friend and decided that she was going to make an effort to work with me and be nice? Well, everything was fine for a week or so, but for the past few days it's back to being just like it was before. I should have known. Really, I kind of did...I've come to realize that there may be small breaks in her irrational and crazy behavior in which she can bring herself to be civil and cooperative...but they don't last for long and are always followed by even more ridiculous and immature behavior.
I watch SD 8:30-6:30 while her mom is at work. So today Biomom had made arrangments for me to watch SD this morning. I got up and waited and waited and waited.Well Biomom NEVER SHOWED UP. She didnt call and didnt answer the phone when I called to ask her if I still needed to watch SD. I am SO annoyed! She has NO common courtesy at all! No wonder people cant stand her and dont want to do things for her.
We had a nice day yesterday, even though I caught my stepson's cold that both he and my husband swore was allergies. It was Grandparent's day and I wrote down all of stepson's grandparents' phone numbers on a piece of paper for him. I had him call each of them and wish them a happy Grandparent's Day. I even included biomom's mom, who lives out of state. She asked stepson whose idea it was for him to call her and he said Dawn. I just smiled!
My stepson spent the weekend with us. My husband had to work on saturday morning. This is the time I clean the house each week. When ss is visiting he helps me. Well we were going through his clothes to see which ones he has outgrown when he suddenly just said "mom" I looked at him and replyed "what." He didn't say anything. SO I went back to folding clothes. A minute last he said it again. I said "what" again. He just looked at me and smiled. The rest of the weekend I was Nicole again. What does this mean? It was almost like he was just testing the idea or something.
OK, I know this is trivial, but it really bothers me. It has been raining all day and BF and I are both pretty bored, so I suggest we go to a matinee. He asks me what I would like to see and I say well, Pirates 2 is still out in theaters and we haven’t seen it yet. He says, NO. When I ask him why not, he says well his daughter wanted to go see it, so we can’t go without her (it’s always about her). This isn’t his weekend to have her. I wouldn’t mind so much except when she is here, we never go.
Every time visitation day rolls around, I get a little antsy. Last time ss was here, bf actually talked to ss about me and asked him how he feels about me. SS told him that he really likes me but what he doesn't like is going home and dealing with his mom being mad because I'm around. I'm very happy about this! Now I know for a fact that ss likes me and biomom is just making stuff up when she goes on her rants and tries to tell me that he hates me.
When I saw ex at SS game, I was so drawn to her eyebrows. I guess cause it looked like a perfect rainbow shaped. It's not arched on one end of the eyebrow and other side is supposed to be lower. It was a perfect rainbow so it made it look like she was surprised! Looks like she doesn't have much eyebrows so she draws it in. Man it was scary looking.... Then she had this big, HUGE mole on her face, you can't help to stare at it. SHE IS BUTT UGLY AND SCARY LOOKING WITH THOSE EYEBROWS. I GUESS SHE DOESN'T HAVE TO BOTHER LOOKING FOR A HALLOWEEN COSTUME NOW!
Ok so yesterday Biomom calls and asks if she could take SD today for a few hours. She wanted to spend some time one on one with SD. She was obviously feeling guilty about SD being so upset with all the fighting Biomom and her BF were doing.Biomom originally said SD was lying about the fights but it came out later that they were fighting and Biomom moved out because of it. So my hubby & I agreed to let SD go to Biomoms house for a few hours while I went to the barn. So I called Biomom on my way to the barn. Biomom said she didnt have enough gas to meet me somewhere to pick SD up.
The Ex called my husband this morning on his cell phone from her work. She had a computer problem at work and wanted to know if he could help her! Keep in mind that it hasn't even been a week since we found out that she has my husband's middle name as her computer password and now this!!
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