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Submitted by Kim on Sun, 10/29/2006 - 2:51am

Yesterday was transition day for my BF's son to go back to his mother's house. Since there was no school, he got picked up from our home. I haven't had any issues with our home being the pick up location, as long as there is no BS that goes along with it. BUT, yesterday has changed my perspective on things. My BF's ex was waiting outside of our home a half hour before the pick-up time. She knows very well that he will not be released into her custody until the pick-up time which is 4:00pm.

Update from last week...

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Submitted by Kim on Sat, 10/21/2006 - 8:41am

Last week I wrote about BF's son and his extra-curricular activity (bowling)...BF's son didn't go to bowling two weeks ago (Thursday), while with us because BM didn't pick him from our house that day. He called his mom that night to ask why she didn't pick him up and she basically screamed at him about blaming her for not going to the activity...saying how dare she get blamed for this and that his father was supposed to take him. She proceeded to ask why he did not call her that weekend and he said because "I didn't want to". The conversation ended soon after.

Things are going to get heated

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Submitted by Kim on Fri, 10/13/2006 - 8:39pm

My BF's ex-wife has had a history of causing problems for my BF. She tends to use their son as a reason to contact my BF for the most ridiculous reasons. They have been separated for the last four years and divorced for the last two. However, she constantly initiates contact with him and tries to provoke arguments about random things (which seems to be an attention-seeking behavior on her part). The frequency of her behaviors have escalated since I moved here about two months ago.