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Submitted by tankh21 on Fri, 03/30/2018 - 8:59am

So DH picked up the skids last night. DH and me are in the kitchen talking and all of the sudden OSS comes out. Right in the middle of me talking he says Dad like 5 times. I am like it's rude to interrupt adults when they are talking you need to wait until I am done talking.

Skids and BM as always....

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Submitted by tankh21 on Thu, 03/29/2018 - 7:06am

DH has decided to let BM have the skids the first weekend in May even though it's his weekend to let them see BM's mother. I am not even complaining about that either so on to the next topic. Skids don't have school on Good Friday which is tomorrow CO states that if it's DH's weekend then he is responsible for them if they have a school holiday that falls on a Friday or Monday. I reminded DH that he has the skids tomorrow since it's his weekend. Of course BM doesn't read the CO and will ask him if she is keeping the skids or is he since it's a school holiday.

Car finally squared away but always drama on the homefront....

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Submitted by tankh21 on Mon, 03/26/2018 - 10:23am

So...everything has been squared away with my car but...of course there is always some kind of drama. BM texted DH Friday night telling him that her mother was coming down the first week in May and that since she gave up her time last year for spring break so his mother could spend time with the skids it was only fair for him to give up his weekend. This woman is only nice and does things for people to benefit herself. I told DH I am staying out of this one because it really doesn't affect me.

Another update....

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Submitted by tankh21 on Wed, 03/21/2018 - 10:09am

So DH says that everything is about me that I am a manipulator! I think this is pent up anger and frustration of me telling him what to do with the skids and about BM. I mean I constantly was on his a$$ about establishing boundaries and structure with the skids. I felt that I have that right since I help pay bills in my house.

I have no idea where this is coming from or why he is saying these things but it was really hurtful. He is emotionally and mentally closed off because he isn't getting his way with the whole car situation.

Just trying to analyze this logic.....

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Submitted by tankh21 on Tue, 03/20/2018 - 7:18am

Does anyone else find it hard to believe that a man would stay with a toxic person who they supposedly hate because of the kids? Do you think that this is a lie or do you think a man would really stay with someone and be miserable for the kids but create more kids with this person? Just trying to analyze this logic....

Update...

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Submitted by tankh21 on Mon, 03/19/2018 - 8:29am

So...My DH said that because I said that I didn't want to screw over my ex and because I said his name and didn't say that I wouldn't do that anyone that my loyalties lie with him if I don't get rid of my car. He said that if I wanted to stay in this marriage with him that I would have to give the car back to my ex. Yeah this actually happened. So I mind f***** him and then he told me that he was sorry for being mean to me. I have no idea what is going to happen or whether he is still going to try to tell him that if I want to stay with him that I have to give my car back to my ex.

Just need some insight please?

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Submitted by tankh21 on Fri, 03/16/2018 - 9:31am

So if your spouse/SO wants you to make a financial decision because they think it's better for the family but you dont agree or don't want to do it. Then they tell you well if you don't fix it I will. Would you feel there is something shady going on or that this person is only with you because of money? Or maybe they are just controlling? Please give me some insight on this?

Yesterday and just needing to vent....

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Submitted by tankh21 on Tue, 03/13/2018 - 8:28am

So DH picks up the skids yesterday for spring break and the first thing that comes out of OSS's mouth to me is "Do you have febreze my room smells bad? I told him "No, I don't and I just cleaned your room". I went into his room and nothing smelled bad so I have no idea what he was even talking about?

I am thinking well you don't take a shower unless you are told to so the bad smell is most likely coming from you. I wanted to tell him that but I didn't. My DH was going to pick something up from the store so he picked up febreze for OSS.

Spring Break with the skids I can't hardly wait.....

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Submitted by tankh21 on Mon, 03/12/2018 - 6:37am

So DH has the skids for spring break oh joy. My anxiety of course is rising having to deal with them for a week. I still don't know what to do about the sleeping on the couch situation. I guess we should just keep on being consistent. I don't know why this kid wants to sleep on the couch all the time though. It's a fight every time he comes over and I am really tired of it. My dad asked DH and me if we wanted to go to the beach one weekend in May. I told DH that I wanted to go when he was kid free.

Being consistent is not important to my DH.....

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Submitted by tankh21 on Fri, 03/09/2018 - 7:41am

YSS brought his blanket out to the couch last night and was watching TV. So around 9:30 pm I tell DH that TV is still blasting in the living room. All of the sudden I hear in a really soft spoken voice my DH trying to wake SS up and telling him to go to bed. The kid was pretending he was sleeping so he could get away with sleeping on the damn couch again. So my DH goes outside for something. SS is still on the couch with the TV blasting I go over to the couch turn off the TV and in a stern voice I tell SS to go to bed now! He says ok and gets up and goes to bed.

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