So BM starts blowing up my DH's phone call him 6 times in a row. DH didn't answer the phone and sent a text to her saying please just text him unless it's an emergency. It wasn't an emergency BM just said she needed to talk to him. DH is sitting in front of her house ready to pick up the kids. BM pulls up and she is late of course as always and walks over to his truck. He tells him that YSS is sick and has a upper respiratory infection. DH said well did you take him to the doctor? She says not yet. Well how does she know that is what is wrong with him then?!

So OSS tells BM everything down to even our finances. We don't talk about anything personal in front of OSS. He cannot be trusted to be left alone in our house at all either. It's totally pathetic that we have to make sure that no personal information or bills are laying around when OSS comes over. I feel this kid is a loss cause. He is a pathological liar and dedicated to mommy dearest to taking my DH down. I get the worst feeling in the pit of my stomach when he gets ready to come over. Am I a terrible SM for feeling this way?

Skid were still sick Friday night. I told DH that visitation is voluntary and he could've let those kids stay home with BM since she was so concerned about her previous snowflakes and not got the rest of us sick. He just looked at me with this blank stare so I just walked off. On saturday I went to see my family this weekend and left DH at home with the skids. I was nice and quiet. Then I get home and OSS used one of my good knives to open a can. We have 2 can openers. He is 13 years old and doesn't know how to open a can with a can opener.

So yesterday DH dropped the skids off at home at 6 pm and of course BM was late. About 30 minutes later she sends a text telling him that he violated the CO by not communicating with her about the skids medical needs. She was claiming that OSS asthma was terrible and that YSS had a 101 temperature. OSS never showed any signs that his asthma was even bothering him and YSS had the same symptoms as DH and me just coughing a little bit and sneezing so he was just taking allergy medication just like us. Also OSS tells her everything so it's not like she didn't know what was going on.