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Freaking livid....

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Submitted by tankh21 on Fri, 10/27/2017 - 8:41am

So last night I go to open some of my food and clearly someone broke the seal on it and stuck their finger in it then closed it back up. I was livid so I ask both of skids if they did it of course both of them deny it so I blow up and tell DH to take something away from them for the rest of the night. He refuses to do it so I do it. He flat out refuses to disciplines his kids and I am not at my wit's end with this crap. He will never change and will always be a Disney dad I think. I told him why do you always make me be the bad guy and then says well why do I have to be the bad guy.

I am really tired of this kid.

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Submitted by tankh21 on Mon, 10/23/2017 - 10:28am

So we went camping over the weekend with my dad and SM and it was DH's weekend to have the skids. YSS wanted to use DH's phone and call BM at 10:00 pm at night while we were on the way to go camp it was not an emergency so DH told him to call BM tomorrow. Then all of the sudden I hear BM's voice on speaker phone on Saturday morning at 6:30 am in the morning. I tell YSS if he wants to call his mother that early in the morning he needs to go outside so that he doesn't wake everyone up.

Just have to hang in there I guess....

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Submitted by tankh21 on Tue, 10/17/2017 - 2:37pm

So DH went to go see his lawyer about BM and what she has been doing. The lawyer said that we could file a motion to get the CO modified to make the pick up and drops at the police station and make BM use family wizard however, as soon as that happens she is going to definitely going to file for an increase in CS. She cannot do that for another two years unless we file a motion. So DH has decided to wait until BM takes him back to court to file the motion to get the CO modified. As far as the harassment goes the lawyer told DH to just document everything and ignore BM.

DH says I abuse him mentally.

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Submitted by tankh21 on Wed, 10/11/2017 - 11:04am

DH says that mentally abuse him because I told him that I have no idea why god decided to give BM and him two kids because they don't parent. He lets SS get away with everything and I admit it was harsh of me to say that but I am so tired of the all of this crap and an 11 year old thinking he can run our household and his father won't do anything about it. But, I am the bad guy and I abuse him mentally. Do you think this is mental abuse? I need to know if I am out of line.

Maybe I should leave.

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Submitted by tankh21 on Tue, 10/10/2017 - 8:34am

I think that I am truly done now because what I say doesn't matter and my DH is going to do whatever he wants any way. SS got hit with a kid swinging last Friday while he was at school so BM texts my DH and tells him in a vague message that SS got hit in the mouth from a another kid swinging. Then nothing after that. DH was worried and of course BM didn't tell him anything. She sends SS with these Ziploc bags filled with orajel, gauze, and band-aids and wrote what to do with them on the Ziploc bags. SS lip was a little swollen but that is to be expected because he got hit with a swing.

SS birthday and BM lied....

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Submitted by tankh21 on Tue, 09/26/2017 - 7:41am

So DH picked up SS yesterday. DH wanted me to meet him at dinner I was hungry so I decided to meet them. I did not go with DH to pick up or drop off SS. SS said there was no birthday party or dinner planned like BM said there was so clearly she lied. Nothing surprises me anymore when it comes to her. SS said that BM told him that he needed to wait until she got paid before they could even do anything or get him anything for his birthday.

Today is SS's birthday...

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Submitted by tankh21 on Mon, 09/25/2017 - 6:40am

I blogged last week about BM trying to make DH feel guilty about picking up YSS for his birthday today now he wants me to come with him to pick him up. I feel that he should spend time with his son alone however he wants to do this as a family. Well YSS and I really do not have a great relationship as most of you know so I really do not want to go but DH is insisting that I go with him. I don't want to hurt DH's feelings and I really don't think SS would want me there. All DH keeps saying is that your his SM and we are a family I want you to be there.

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