Yeah I think that I am done caring about whether my DH gets screwed over by BM or what his skids are doing or are getting away with. I am thinking that maybe when he finds a job that I should just leave then I wouldn't have to worry whether or not he is going to pay the bills that are in his name or if he is going to fill out the modification papers for CS and send them to the OAG. If he goes to jail for back CS why should I care since all I do is complain and be mean to him? I told him that I am done caring about his wife AKA BM, his kids or anything in his name.

So DH still doesn't have a job yet and is going to file modication papers with the OAG. Hell on earth starts next Friday for thirty days straight. Wait until the skids find out DH doesn't have a job and tell BM. DH let the skids have their cell phones back. I didn't say a word about that situation. But the minute I catch them doing something they aren't supposed to be doing I will take those phones and they will not be allowed to use them any longer. DH is supposed to be calling the optometrist to get SS's prescription so he can get him new glasses.

Two questions...

Do you think I should try to resolve the conflict by reaching out BM?

Do you think it's normal for two people who absolutely cannot co-parent to still communicate after a kid reaches adulthood or the NCP stop paying CS?

Summer is almost here. DH still is going to interviews and the skids will be with us for the month of June. So DH informed me that his brother and his wife are coming to visit in October with MIL. This is the same brother that still talks to BM and one skid. I only know this because SS has the biggest mouth in the world and likes to hear his own voice. He has told me that his Uncle texts him and BM and that BM talks to his uncle on the phone. DH's brother also called the police and told them that DH was abusing his skids.