So last night, grandma took the babies and DH and I had a night to ourselves. It felt so great. We had a nice dinner while watching one of our favourite shows. DH got to bed before me and was reading a book. I went to take a shower before bed, and in my mind, was preparing to come out of the shower and have a nice sex session, since we have zero distractions for once. But while I was in there, I heard that DH got a message on his phone. It was late, past 11pm, so of course when I came out I asked what was the message about. DH sent the phone across the bed and told me to look.

DH had a little too much to drink this weekend, and I feel like "the psycho BM" in him came out.

I don't know how to deal with this. He never cared too much about what was going on at BM's house because that's pretty much out of his control. But now that BM's bf is living there, and SS is doing a bunch of guy stuff with him, DH is sad, depressed, stressed.

Sooo, I told DH that I won't do such a thing. He said he figured as much. He doesn't really care to do it either but the reasoning of "for the kids" whispers naggingly at him.

Anyway, he told BM on the phone that "these things take years" and she had the phone on speaker-phone and SS broke into tears. He's the one who wants this gathering, it seems.

I have not been here in a while, with a toddler and a baby it has become almost impossible. But I just need to let some stuff O.U.T. - both good and bad:

Here goes:
1. DH has FINALLY traded in his sporty, luxury car that had both his and Ex-wife's name on it. (His name was solely on the car she drove, and he needed her to co-sign in order to get a loan for his car, even though she never used it). Anyway, WE bought a mini-van that fits everyone.