Here's what BM said:

1. "I don't think the calendar needed to be changed for those two days especially since you will be at work anyway."

She asked to have one of DH's weekends and sent the calendar in PDF. DH asked for 2 days in the week to make up and I helped him redo the calendar to show this. Clearly, no one is allowed to make changes to HER calendar. But her reasoning is BS, because she's at work most weekdays when the kids are at her house too!

2. "Also I did not copy your wife on the original email so why is she involved in your response?"

So BM replied 2 days later (see previous post http://www.steptalk.org/node/159238), clearly she had to think about it because she usually whips off 1000 word replies within minutes.

And it begins like this: "SM31, you know what SM31? I thought your offering to help was..." and I don't know what comes next because that's all that's in the preview and I have archived that email and won't open it until who knows when because I'm pretty sure there's nothing in there that pertains to the kids.

Because I'm the only one who is supposed to be understanding and tolerant of the intrusiveness of an ex-wife.

I suppose if I also had an ex-husband, it would be a more equal playing field. But I don't.

And I hate sharing my husband with "the mother of his other children". I especially hate it at meal times, at night times, on his days off, on OUR family outings, and no, she doesn't come along, I just hate having her text or call.

I don't know if any of you have experienced this and have any idea as to what's motivating BM's latest shenanigans. If you have, please share.

BM got a decent full-time job, in the same industry as DH and located one street away from where he currently works.