BM really chaps my ass sometimes.

Today SS3 had his tonsils and adenoids removed. BF met BM and SS early this morning at the surgery center. BM left by 8:00 am, before SS even had them removed, so she could go to class, so BF was the one who stayed with SS the whole time.

I know the surgery's not serious, but if that were my kid I think I would skip my class that day to be there with him, I think the teacher would understand.

BF and I live about 15 miles from BM, and where SS's preschool/daycare is. So on the weeks BF has SS he makes 2 round trips to drop off and pick up SS. He and I decided that since I work in the town where SS goes to school that a couple days a week I would pick up or drop off SS so we would save on some of the gas we were using. This week when I picked SS up BM's mom was there picking up BM's daughter. When she realized that I was the one picking up SS she kind of had this look of shock on her face.

While putting FSS to bed tonight he looks at me and says "you don't like mommy?" I tell him that yes I like his mommy ( :sick: threw up in my mouth a little having to say that!). He then says to me, "mommy says she doesn't like you". I didn't really know what to say to that, how do you try and explain something like that to a 3 yr. old? So I just kinda changed the subject, and finished tucking him in. Why can't she understand that what she's doing by saying these kinds of things to him is just going to hurt SS in the end?

A bit of good news for BF and I to start off our long weekend. This morning BM met BF at the courthouse and signed the paperwork to do a 50/50 split. I am sooo excited ! We thought that she wouldn't actually go through with it. They now have a court date in July for CS and I don't think BM quite understands that the CS is going to drop to pretty much nothing, so this should be interesting.