BF and I live about 15 miles from BM, and where SS's preschool/daycare is. So on the weeks BF has SS he makes 2 round trips to drop off and pick up SS. He and I decided that since I work in the town where SS goes to school that a couple days a week I would pick up or drop off SS so we would save on some of the gas we were using. This week when I picked SS up BM's mom was there picking up BM's daughter. When she realized that I was the one picking up SS she kind of had this look of shock on her face. SS stood there and talked to her for a couple of minutes, and all I'm thinking in my head is, oh great now BM is going to flip out and start her incessant texting. I get SS home and tell BF who was there so he's prepared for the upcoming barrage lol.

So late last night BF gets the first texts from her, "Don't talk about me", I think she was referring to me as I had simply commented to BM's mom that, wow SS and his sister really look alike, and they do! Then it's "F off, leave me alone". Then she sends this one, "You and her should just raise him, he doesn't need me". :? I just picked him up from daycare for crying out loud! I just want to tell her, you are his mother, not me, of course he needs you. However I know it would fall on deaf ears and probably make her freak out even more. I'm not trying to replace her, nor do I want to. Who, as a mother, says this?

There were many more texts after those, but we had gone to bed so I don't even know what the rest said.