Well she called my DH and wanted to make a deal we get SS Sun. -Tues and she gets him Wed. -Fri. and they switch Saturdays, on her sat. we pick SS on Sun at 6pm on our Sat. we pick up SS at 9am oh sorry not we it only says my DHs name, she wont come to our house or call because it is long distance eventhough DH pays 600 a month in CS, so they would still have to go to court to decide placement because she wants him to go to school in her district and we want him in our district because we have not moved 6 times just once into a house we built and we are not moving she rents a trailer and says shes not moving eventhough she was moving in April but that changed. My DH will agree if we get placement which I know she wont give us, I dont think kids should go back and forth during the week once they start school, I know week to week would be hard on my SS but I think having a routine from week to week is better than spliting it up during the week, school is hard enough. Is any one a lawyer or judge what do you think? I have no idea what the judge will say, we are worried because DH is a guy! I would love to get full custody with visitaions to her, and if he comes home on Sat. with more flea bites we are going to do something, all opinions welcome, you guys help me stay sane!!!