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The celebration of your 29th birthday (Wink), celebrating 30 years and 25 days of our life adventure together, and 32 years and 19 days of loving and being proud our son.
Your beauty, brilliance, and incredible soul take my breath away even more than the first time I saw you.
I pray for your happiness and hope that you share your light with the world, and me, for another nearly 50 years, or more.
Enjoy dinner tonight at The Top off The World.
With infinate appreciation of you.
Love,
Rags
I need to know if I am just being over sensitive? Against my wishes because there has been issues in the past ,SO had SD stay to watch the pets while we were away.She will be 18 in a few months. She had several issues the first few days and bothered SO about it. One was that our youngest cat was missing. Cats will hide for hours . But I find out that SD called BM to help her look for the cat. I feel violated and have told SO he has to have a talk with SD. I don't want BM in the house unless it is a life or death situation. Am I over reacting?
My husband and i got married in October of 2023. At that point he had a daughter we'll call her Z. She was from a previous gf/bf realationship. She was less than a year old then. There were soemone custody issues due to the grandmother of Z on her moms side, which resulted in my husband we'll call his S to not see her until the day of her 1st birthday. They went to mediation and they have a temp parenting plan until August of this year where they are supposed to have S get more time like over nights etc. Since we've seen Z more ive been struggling with my role as her step parent.
There is a new Duracell battery commercial that just chaps my ass to no end and grinds my jaws.
A young kid is screaming his head off when his remote control race car stops working. Frowning mommy replaces the batteries in the remote, gives it to the kid, and the kid smiles.
SO and I have been on vacation for a week and it has been pretty great. Only a few hiccups in the beginning because he insisted SD pet sit and she was having some issues . Well yes because we need a professional who cares about the pets to watch them. But it didn't take up too much of our time and SO was upset with how SD was handling it but I told him there is nothing we can do at this point. But now we will be heading back to reality where I am sure he will start on me again about going to all of his kids things.
Welll, after much thought and of course reading all the comments on my last post, I spoke with my parents on the issue as well. I even spoke with the neighbor gal. She thinks its pretty shady that the kids not working and not in (free) college. Her new take on things is maybe Toxic Troll is lying about SD18s age to keep her a minor so that she can keep that section 8 nezt by the beach.
Gathering my thoughts.
Husband and I had a BIG talk about the situation with SD18 Princess Powersulk Do Nada, Our lady of Inertia, goddess of Sloth.
Hey everyone, I'm sort of new to this site and I've been on here before reading your stories but I'm new to posting so here goes. DW and I have been together for 13 years (Married for 10) and she has two kids from her previous relationship and we have three kids together (twins 10, 7). At the time SS23 was 9 and former SS (Who would be 21 now) was 6 when I first met her. DW and her ex had a really on and off toxic marriage to say the least. When it finally ended they pretty much hated each other.
I couldn't sleep last night, and i ended up going down a Reddit rabbit hole. Ended up on a forum where the advice ranged from "Don't do it! You'll regret it, ask me how i know!" to "It can work if you are mature, know your boundaries, communicate well, and don't have a lot of insecurity and jealousy."
Sounds familiar, but the forum was actually advice between members of the Marine Corps about marrying a stripper or sex worker. The similarities between the advice on there and the advice given to stepparents weirded me out. What does it all mean?!
Not sure if anyone remembers my last post it was almost a year ago, BM accused me of hurting SD. This was a split second accusation which was quickly squashed but not once did i get an apology.. Since then i had taken a huge step back as a step mum. Which in turn has now caused us to end. Bit of a back ground, BM is the most toxic, abusive, narcassistic piece of s*** to ever walk this earth. Gives us Bio mums a bad name! One rule for her and one rule for everyone else.
My 14 year relationship is coming to an end. I ended it. But I am absolutley devestated and it has taken every ounce of strengthI had left to stay strong on this. We have fought so many times and told each other we were done but it never lasted long. But it's now been almost 5 days since we have spoken and I'm trying to stay strong because part of me feels like this is what i need to do and everyone in my life agrees. But I've been told everything is my fault for so long that I can't help but question now that maybe it partly is.
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