I cannot believe what has happened. Sorry I feel like a blog hog lately but the amount of drama these skids are doing is crazy. 

Dh told me yesterday when he got home from the shop that he received another text from SD. He just gave me his phone and sighed. 

Well the update is SD played the old 'I have anxiety about coming to your house so I'm going to stay with mum this weekend' card. All because DH said no to her going to this sleep over. He doesn't know how to respond to her. I told him he needs to let her know that her behaviour is unacceptable and he will be discussing it with her. 

So managed to finally show my DH how SD is manipulative and it's not me being crazy. 
Basically she applied false nails on herself and told SS12 they were real and not to tell DH and myself. Of course SS being SS, immediately pulled me aside as soon as we got home from picking them up and told me. I actually have no effs anymore what she does from BMs, and trained myself pretty hard to not react so I said 'oh? Why would we care?' And he shrugged and I shrugged and walked inside. He told DH and he wasn't phased either. 
 

Thank you for your responses on my last post. I agree with what people have said about putting SD10 in therapy, regardless of the reasons why. Definitely agree it's a trend thing to have a mental illness and that anxiety is the norm. 
So the school rang DH this morning from the school counsellor. Apparently SD has sent messages to another girl in class about wanting to kill herself. She also sent a video of herself holding a screwdriver and not sure.. maybe attempting to cut her wrist. The mother saw it in her child's phone and reported it to the school.