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Concerns about possessive & selfish ex-wife

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There has always been something about BM that bothered me. but I couldn't put my finger on it until now Thinking back after this last big blow up, i should have realized it sooner (will give examples on down). BM still had/has 'feelings' for BF! By feelings I mean that she still has staked a claim on him. He's not my Boyfriend, he's her ex-husband/baby daddy.

I feel bad for BM

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not really. I think she is having a really bad month (last month) but I also think that she brought it on herself. Smile It started when I finally told her how I felt about her the 1st week of May. I told her that I didn't like her and asked her to stop txting me. (it was like the 3rd txt from her in a month, i ignored the first 2) BF says that she doesn't take rejection well, so I am sure that she started planning to get rid of me.

I am happy for BM (and Karma)

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BM just got a new job. Based on what I have been told about BM's past this sounds like her first real '9 to 5' job. I am very happy for her, because for once she will understand what the rest of us go though. Where does Karma come in? Well BF has a very demanding job and puts in a lot of hours (some times close to 60 a week). Before I came along he needed BM to help him with the boys, but at the time she was just working part time so it wasn't a big deal even though she made it out to be one.

concerned, what do I do?

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I am deeply concerned for SS6, more so now for reasons that I will explain further down. But it's getting to the point where as a FSM there is not much that I can do besides stress about it and make myself sick with worry. So I am wondering if it is even worth it or if I should just give up and not care like everyone else seems to be.

Mother's day ordeal and my mistake

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So mother's day didn't go anything like planned. It started early in the week when BF call BM to see if she wanted the kids earlier on mother's day so that she would spend mother's day with them. She said no and to drop them off at 5pm like usual. Well BF ran into BM's mom at the store and said hi to her. Some how it came up and BF told her that he offered to drop the kids off early, but BM acted like she didn't want them. Her mom seemed confused - who knows what BM had told her.

Does your BM play favorties, what do you do?

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I have been thinking for awhile that BM favors one kid over the other, but I thought - 'No way' would a mother do that. I would like to know if I am alone with this issue and if other Steps are having this issue what you do to help. I know I can't change her or what she does but I feel bad for the kid not getting all the attention. But I want to be fair.

First a few reasons why i think she favors SS3 over SS5.

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