So mother's day didn't go anything like planned. It started early in the week when BF call BM to see if she wanted the kids earlier on mother's day so that she would spend mother's day with them. She said no and to drop them off at 5pm like usual. Well BF ran into BM's mom at the store and said hi to her. Some how it came up and BF told her that he offered to drop the kids off early, but BM acted like she didn't want them. Her mom seemed confused - who knows what BM had told her. So BF called BM again just to make sure she didn't want them, letting her know what he talked to her mom and that her mom thought she should have them. BM didn't seem happy about it but agreed to take them at 10 am.

We told her that we had plans and if she didn't want them then they were coming with us to see our mother's.

BM txt'd at 8 am saying to drop them off at 10:30 instead. I was a little annoyed with it but I was like okay - it's mother's day I am going to let it slide, even though it sets our plans back a little. I was trying to get to my mom's house before she left for work at Noon. Well she txt's again at 10 - she is at the pub and doesn't know when they will be done. Now I am really annoyed but as luck would have it she was done by 10:30 so we ran them over to her. Bring along the mother's day gift that we HAD to get her (which I am going to look it up in BF's divorce no way that is required by law). Well SS6 tells her what it was - a waffle maker. BM just frowns. WTF! did she expect us to get her?

Any way what happened next was kind of my fault. If you read my blog you know that BM gave me a picture with her in it for mother's day - which was very rude. Well I cut her out of it. SS3 found the cut out and was playing with it, at the time I didn't care because I figured he would just trash it and then I would find it later and toss it. Well forgot all about it and I guess it ended up in his school bag. Long story short BM found it and sent BF this long rambling txt that made no sense - especially to him since he knew nothing about it.

I had to read it a few times before I got what it was about. But you know what she shouldn't have given it to me in the first place.

In the txt she asked if she needed to get me new scissors or photo shop for xmas. She added that she made 3 of them for family. and that it was just a pic of her legs (which it wasn't just her legs) and then a tiny picture of her. And she called us both psychos. Something about keeping it that next time - but if you think about it technically I gave it to SS3. How is that any different than her sending a 'family' photo over with SS6?

So she is mad at me now but you know what I really don't care. She doesn't need to give me any more gifts - period. and she can stay away from me.