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Submitted by SisterNeko on Mon, 04/16/2012 - 10:34am

At what age or situation is it 'appropriate' for children to attend a funeral/visitation?

I ask because FDH's grandfather passed away this weekend and it is our week to have the kids. As soon as we found out FDH was like what are we going to do with the kids (ages 4.5 and 6.5). I was a little shocked - it was after all their great-grand father and some one that they knew/spent time with, I just assumed they would go with us (even if it wasn't our week)

Save the date?

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Submitted by SisterNeko on Fri, 04/13/2012 - 4:50pm

I just have to post this - it makes little sense. So FDH and I are getting married this fall, and we have told some people our 'desired' date but nothing is for sure yet. A few days ago FDh was working with BM to try to reschedule and appt. for SS4.

He nicely said that he can't do it the first week in Oct. He didn't really say why and BM was like okay well I can't do it the 2nd week of October because I am going to be out of town.

BM didn't want Skids for Easter

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Submitted by SisterNeko on Tue, 04/10/2012 - 9:15am

So sad - right? It started a few weeks ago BM told FDH that he didn't need to bring the boys back early on Easter Sunday - the usual drop off time of 5 p.m would be fine. FDH was excited, since that meant we got them most of the day on Easter which we spent with family of course. And I didn't really think about it until we dropped the boys off at BM's.

legal question - missing attachments?

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Submitted by SisterNeko on Wed, 04/04/2012 - 10:35am

I know you guys aren't lawyers but I thought I would ask to see if any of you guys had this issue. I have been going over FDH's divorce with him lately because BM continues to say that something is in there or they have to do something a certain way because of the CO. Which apparently no one has actually read until now.

So my question is, the CO refers in a few places (regarding the kids, parenting and custody) to "See Attachment" but there is no attachment for it.

I can finally say that I am proud of FDH

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Submitted by SisterNeko on Wed, 04/04/2012 - 10:23am

he finally sees through BM's BS and staring to understand how this system works. Smile

The other day he finally talked to the last of the 3 docs, and new reports are being sent out. While talking to this one he said that BM's said she would set up the next appointment and the doc told him that she would see to it that BM did. FYI I don't think this doc thought too much of BM.

BM wants to find me a job - control freak!

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Submitted by SisterNeko on Mon, 04/02/2012 - 12:55pm

BM txt'ed FDH today to let him know (since her and I don't talk or play well together) that there is a job fair tomorrow at the college where she works, she also added the the college was hiring. I have been laid off since July but I have recently had an increase in free-lance (work from home). BM knew that I wasn't working but recently she got a copy of the NEW doctor report in which FDH listed me as a Stay At Home Mom.

Wanna see how fast BM can back peddle and think of new lies?

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Submitted by SisterNeko on Fri, 03/30/2012 - 10:36am

So the new report from the doctor came yesterday. Yup BM called FDH around the time she gets home from work.

But based on what FDH told me that she said - I think she is already trying to cover her ass.

- First of all she told FDH that she never got the first report. I find that hard to believe since it was addressed to both of them and had BOTH addresses on it. (and the family doctor)

is it just me or is BM confusing?

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Submitted by SisterNeko on Thu, 03/29/2012 - 11:54am

After working hard to 'correct' comments made by BM to SS4's doctor regarding what he can and can't do - a new reports has been sent out and I am sure BM is going to be calling FDH (FDH is the one that made the corrections) - BM notified us last weekend that we can have the sKids all day on Easter and drop them off at the normal time because they are taking the boys to the city for an Easter/Spring Break get away at a water park (with family).

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