I thought you guys might want an update as to how the court date went over BM's order of protection on BF. BM didn't have a lawyer, just like last time. I guess she felt like she didn't need representation because her story was enough. But, like last time, the judge didn't buy her story. He let her ramble on and on about all the mistakes BF has ever made in his life and the fact that she is a victim and the world's perfect mother, then politely informed her that none of that really mattered today.

BF has been so strong through all this, and finally the other night he broke down. It came after several hours of snappy remarks, arguments, and even him talking about leaving. Finally he realized the reason why he was so upset and that he was taking it out on me because he felt like I was all he had.

You would think after almost 8 years of being seperated and 1 year of divorce, BM would be making progress...but to our dismay, things continue to get worse as time goes on. The other day, BF and I went out to eat for lunch. When we got back from lunch, I walked to my car to go back to work. When I opened the door, I found an envelope sitting on my seat that had been slipped through my cracked window. On it, in big capital letters, was written the word "WHORE". I picked it up and walked over to BF to show him what I had found.

Oh she thinks she's soooo smart. I'm thinking that she's hurting for money lately because she's called at least once a day for the past several days demanding BF pay her for supposed medical expenses of SS's. She even had the gall to email me and say that BF had better bring the $xxx he "owed" her for the medical expenses if he wanted to pick SS up for visitation.

Now would be an appropriate time to point out that SS is on governmentally-funded insurance and has virtually NO medical expenses besides the occasional copay.