Remember when I said that biomom had spoken to a mutual friend and decided that she was going to make an effort to work with me and be nice? Well, everything was fine for a week or so, but for the past few days it's back to being just like it was before. I should have known. Really, I kind of did...I've come to realize that there may be small breaks in her irrational and crazy behavior in which she can bring herself to be civil and cooperative...but they don't last for long and are always followed by even more ridiculous and immature behavior.

Something that is a small problem now, but I could see as becoming a large problem down the road. Biomom calls and leaves messages every now and then, maybe twice a week or more, asking dh if he'll call and talk to his son about this or that, or most usually that there's this major problem that he needs to call and address. Of course, almost 100% of the time we can assume that what she's claiming is bogus and the kid is completely fine, and there really was no reason or need for the call.

Ok, so most of the time this woman is hell-bent on my destruction. Most of you probably have read my "Did I mention she's psycho?" post (if not I suggest you do to get a little background). It's hard to explain it, but every now and then she'll kind of switch modes temporarily and treat me as if I wasn't the woman dating her ex, but rather a friend that she can confide in and let her feelings out to.

Or rather, maybe it should be worded "Need I mention...". All of our respected bio moms seem to share a lot of similarities, and exhibit a lot of the same behaviors. I don't want to jump in and say that mine takes the cake, but I'm sure you'll agree when I say she's pretty far gone. Story time!

So, I started dating bf many moons ago. At that time she regarded me less like a threat and more like an annoyance. She didn't bother herself wasting too much time on me, I guess she felt that I could never "make it" with her ex.