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FH read my diary and it's not good...

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So, FH read my diary two weeks ago and just blurted it out tonight that he did. I'm pissed to no end but I can see where he'd be mad too after what he read. I've written about my first and 'true love' and how FH isn't anything like him....I KNOW that I would EVER go back to that man in my past but I can see how FH would be threatened. However, my main point is that FH found it and read it. I asked him if he'd read his daughter's diary and he said yes and has...I don't really believe him or he would know that his daughter had sex at 12 years old!

Not planning on going to SS FB game but am going to my bro's...

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DH doesn't know it yet but I'm not going to his son's football game tomorrow but I'm going to go to my little brother's (who is only a year older than SS). I'm still pissed to all hell that BM signed SS up without asking or discussing it with us. I will NOT support that behavior whatsoever and that includes not going to his games...especially since her piece of sh*t husband is an ass. coach on SS's team. I will totally be there to see my brother play which thank God is 4 hours later so chances are I won't run into BM!

I LOVE MY SKIDS...

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Oh....I LOVE my skids even though they are manipulative and lazy! Does ANYONE ever say that!?!? SD is sneaky and manipulative and DH doesn't think she's had sex but I've read her diary and she HAS! She will be 13 next weekend but he seems too oblivious to the fact that his daughter can do any wrong!! I'm sorry but I don't think that a 12 year old should be having sex! He IS the father and says he'd know if she was but he is obilvious about what goes on online...I'm going downstairs right now to buy the spyware to see everything she's typing online....anyone object?

Hoping I gave SD a lesson...

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So, I have blogged about the open cabinet doors before and tonight I hope it taught SD12 a lesson. Leaving cabinet doors and drawers open drives me absolutely nuts! FH has finally got the point after I left all the cabinet doors and drawers open in the kitchen after he didn't close a cabinet door left open...he came home to find everything open and closed all of them....however the skids haven't learned their lesson... So I noticed tonight that SD12 left a drawer in the bathroom open so I opened it all the way which actually hangs past the door opening...

SD12 is having a bday party and sleep over...thinking about not being home...

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So, I guess SD12 called FH last weekend while she was at her moms and asked if she could have a bday party for herself with her girlfriends and a sleep over and he said yes without even asking me or discussing it with me. He just told me last weekend that this was happening so, of course I was totally pissed. I told him when he sprung it on me that I might not be home for it. I don't think that he believed me...

So, FH spilled the beans tonight...

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So...my actual 30th bday was July 3rd and don't get me wrong I had a great bday but if you know my family...30 is a BIG one and usually comes with some kind of surprise party... Well I turned 30 and nothin....no party, no surprise...nothin.... I actually saw a big part of my family that day and nobody gave me a card or anything... So, last night was my FH's bday and I invited my Dad over for dinner and cake and icecream and he actually brought my FH a card and two cases of beer as a gift.

SD12 thinks my sister is 'annoying'

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So my FH and his kids and I were on vacation a couple weeks ago and SD12 I guess told her truth and said that she thought my sister (9 YO) was annoying. I was SOOO pissed! It's still bugging the hell out of me and I'm finding myself to be having more animosity and hatred toward SD! I'm still pissed at FH too for not really standing up for my sister or my family for that fact. If I could've been totally honest at that point in time I would've told SD ten ways that she's annoying to me!

It seems like my bio bro has been avoiding me

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I've been really close to my brother...not always but as we've gotten older. I'm 30 and he's 27. Anyways he's never liked any of my boyfriends...but since I met my DF he seemed to come around. Well, actually he didn't like him at first but the more he got to know him (mind you without DF's kids not around) my bro started to really start liking him. My bro would come over for dinner or a beer after work...but now it's different.

Has anyone ever tried "pushing" the skids to BMs house?

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I know it sounds bad but has any SMs tried pushing the skids to move to their BMs house? FH has joint custody and we always fight and I'm always on edge when they are here. I'm at the point that I'm going to the doctor to get anxiety meds because I can't breathe normally and my heart starts beating faster when they are on their way over. SD12 drives me up the frickin wall every time. She has a huge attitude and expects everything to be given to her without doing anything to earn it.

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