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Not planning on going to SS FB game but am going to my bro's...

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Submitted by Manda on Sat, 08/22/2009 - 4:07am

DH doesn't know it yet but I'm not going to his son's football game tomorrow but I'm going to go to my little brother's (who is only a year older than SS). I'm still pissed to all hell that BM signed SS up without asking or discussing it with us. I will NOT support that behavior whatsoever and that includes not going to his games...especially since her piece of sh*t husband is an ass. coach on SS's team. I will totally be there to see my brother play which thank God is 4 hours later so chances are I won't run into BM! DH probably won't be happy but oh well...he shoulve stood up to BM when all this crap went down!

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Submitted by melis070179 on Sat, 08/22/2009 - 9:52am

Why does it bother you if he plays football?

"I child proofed my whole house, but they STILL get in!"

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Submitted by Angel37 on Sat, 08/22/2009 - 11:51am

But boycotting the child's games won't hurt his mom, it will only hurt your step son and will make you look petty. Also, mom isn't going to say, "Ooooo, I didn't discuss this with ex so now Manda isn't coming to the games...I guess I had better change my evil ways."

“Every truth has two sides; it is as well to look at both, before we commit ourselves to either”~Aesop

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Submitted by melis070179 on Sat, 08/22/2009 - 11:52am

In fact that will probably even make her MORE likely to keep doing it!

"I child proofed my whole house, but they STILL get in!"

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Submitted by frustrated stepmom on Sun, 08/23/2009 - 11:23am

I have to see my step-kids horrible excuse of a mother at games as well. Not going only gives her satisfaction and punishes your step-son. I am a team mom on my step-kids team and that obviously drives her nuts because she's made snide remarks about it when she has nothing else to yell during a disagreement. I'm not saying, don't go to your brother's game...but try not to take it out on your step-son that he has a horrible mother. I have to keep telling myself that it's not the kids fault she's their mother...I can't blame them for how she behaves. Smile

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Submitted by Manda on Wed, 08/26/2009 - 1:51am

Ok...so I didn't go to the last game but I will be at the next game. I'm buying a sweatshirt with my last name slash my DH's last name on it to support both kids... To tell the truth...we aren't married yet but I'm sure seeing his son's last name on my sweatshirt will piss BM off to no end and I'm happy with that. And seeing her son's last name on the same sweatshirt will piss her off even more even though we aren't married yet. Goodie! BM really can't say anything though because her now husband that she cheated on my FH with is coaching SS!