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FH's ex is pregnant...AGAIN

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Submitted by Manda on Tue, 09/08/2009 - 1:54am

FH's ex is pregnant again and just quit her job. Why...I don't know because she demands child support every week even before it's due... I would think that you'd keep your job if you can't afford your own bills with your new husband and kid...but then again what do I know! I'll be damned if she goes to court wanting more money from us! She's the one that cheated, got pregnant with another guy's baby, left and had a restraining order against her baby daddy then ended up marrying him a couple months later.

Our families are meeting each other later today...

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Submitted by Manda on Sat, 09/05/2009 - 2:39am

So FH and I are having a cook out later today with both our families so they can all meet each other. I'm really stressing right now and truth be told have been for the past couple of days. I've been preparing for this party for the past week...cleaning, shopping, etc. We're expecting about 40-45 people...and yes this is just immediate family...LOL...parents, grandparents, siblings, aunts, uncles and one cousin. I've been preparing food all day today and night...actually just laid down in bed not too long ago.

FH tried to get some...

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Submitted by Manda on Thu, 09/03/2009 - 2:36am

So, fH and I had a huge fight the other day and I'm still hurt by the way he screamed at me and talked to me... We talked tonight a little bit and figured out a little about our relationship, however our relationship is still intact. I'm just wondering if we (dan n mandi) should be together...

Charging room n board or not..

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Submitted by Manda on Thu, 09/03/2009 - 2:19am

I was raised that after 18 you pay room and board... FH and I don't agree on that rule... Apperantly fh and I have different views on the subject because I feel if a child moves out at an adult age then they should provide for themself. If anyone let's their child in the home without any responsibilty the only thing they're going to do is to take advantage of the freedom.

Do u n ur significant other see opposing sides?

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Submitted by Manda on Thu, 09/03/2009 - 2:08am

FH and I had a HUGE argument on Saturday night. He screamed at me like never before. We haven't talked about it until tonight and I'm really thinking that it didn't do much good...I just feel worse about myself and really second guessing myself... I really don't know where we stand right now... I tried to get some liquid courage truth out of him to tonight but got mostly crap about politics...(we don't have the same views)... I didn't argue with him because he was drunk but it bothers me that he can only see one side and not take in my side with an open view...

My funny new sign.

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Submitted by Manda on Sat, 08/29/2009 - 2:36am

I went to a craft fair with my mom a couple of weeks ago and bought the greatest sign for my kitchen! My skids are the pickiest eaters so I found a nice sign that says 'Dinner Choices: 1. Take it. 2. Leave it. I personally love it because it's totally me and shows my sense of humor. I actually have another sign that I hung above one of our bathroom doors that say 'Water closet for patrons only'. FH loves the bathroom one but I'm not too sure how much he likes the kitchen sign.

How do you deal with the snoring???

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Submitted by Manda on Sat, 08/29/2009 - 1:16am

My FH snores and it drives me CRAZY! I can't sleep and when I tell him to turn over half the time he doesn't even wake up. It's come to the point lately that I will go sleep somewhere else in the house...especially when the skids aren't around. I really don't want to live like this but I'm the type of person that needs my sleep and if I don't get it I'm an unbearable person the next day...so much so I don't even like myself. My ex-BF and I actually ended up having seperate bedrooms and I feel that was the start of our down-hill slide and idefinately don't want that to happen again.

Anyone else feel like their pet is their kid?

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Submitted by Manda on Fri, 08/28/2009 - 3:25am

So, FH and skids have 2 dogs and they've basically become my babies since I've come into the picture... My oldest pup is 9 and blew out her ACL about a week ago. FH didnt think anything of it until I slept with the dog the night afterward and wouldn't leave her side. He actually came home from work early to take the dog to the vet with me because I can't lift her in the truck and she couldn't jump in by herself. Anyways we were told that it's going to come down to surgery although the vet gave us anti-inflamitory and pain meds to see if she would just heal on her own.

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