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Am I selfish???

So today my BF (I'm hoping I'm using the right abbreviations...pls let me know if I'm not cuz I'm still new and don't get them all yet) so anyway my bf told me he'd have a full day at work and that was fine until he called me at 11:30 am and said he was done with work early and wanted to drive up to his parents cottage in MI to get his boat for our vacation in WI next week and said he'd take his son on the ride up there with him but asked if I could take his daughter to her softball game for him.

Why does it bother me?

ok, first of all I just want to thank you all that responded to my first post! All the responses helped in one way or another.

My 30th birthday

I turned 30 this weekend and the only thing that I asked for was that we didn't have his kids for the weekend so I could have a good time without having to worry about kids. Unfortunately, he couldn't make that happen even though I asked for it a couple months ago...although his ex-wife can call on the drop of a dime and ask that we take the kids and he always agrees. I did stand my ground this weekend like I said I would and really didn't have anything to do with the kids...I told him a month before hand that if we did have the kids it wouldn't be my responsibility to take care of them.

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