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Why did I reproduce with such a total dickhead?

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I keep my opinions about my BD11's father to myself for her sake. I can think anything I want but that is her father no matter what he does. I have 100% full custody and allow him EOW visitations as long as things are going well. He has never paid his CS on time, regularily, followed the CO about covering her medical, or even paying 50% of her unpaid medical. Yet I have always considered CS and visitation two seperate things and never let one effect the other. But today he really got my goat so to speak.

Let me tell you about last night, I really need her to go back to BM's ASAP

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I will try not to make this too long and bore you with too many details but I want you to know a little piece of info about me before you read on. I am a HUGE animal lover. I adopted my dog Roscoe from a boxer rescue. He was 2, he was 40lbs, scarred up, missing lots of hair, had been used as a bait dog (look that up if you don't know what it means) and heartworm positive. I could have gotten a brand new puppy but I wanted to help a dog who deserved a home.

We are never truly alone because she's lurking

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Yesterday SO and I were in the kitchen cleaning up dinner dishes and I was telling him some of the stuff I had going on at work and some training I had coming up. I'm working on a big project that I am really proud of and put almost a years worth of work into and I wanted to be able to share it with him. Then in a lower tone I told him that I had looked online and found us a place to get away on a kid-free weekend to kind of celebrate my finishing the big project.

Sheeeee'sssss BACCCCCCKKKKKK FML

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Oh last week was just so nice, quiet, no bitching, no fighting between SO and I all until 4pm yesterday. And she's back. SO and I talked before he went to get her, for him to go over OUR house rules on the way here so that in case she forgot while being at BM's. To remind her our house is not a trampoline, we don't bounce on everything, we don't touch walls, we do not touch Accorn2L's ipad, laptop, or any of her work items.

Something to tell your SO, DH, DW, that might just make them think about how other people see their children...

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When I was pregnant with BD11 my Granny gave me a piece of advice that has stuck with me through the years and I finally shared it with SO and I thought I would share it with all of you today.

Happy Hump Day-Wait the week is halfway gone ??

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I've been enjoying this skid free week so much that when someone said happy hump day to me I almost cried a little on the inside. She will be back on Sunday at 4 and I'm already starting to get that sinking feeling in my stomach. SO has been awesome this week, friendly, attentive, helpful around the house, but I know when she comes back I will turn into megabitch (that's my transformers name) and he will return back to Daaaaaaddddddddyyyyy with his blinders on.

Ok that is all, just needed to vent that for a moment.

Need your advice for my SO-summer care issue

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We share 50/50 with BM, 7 days with us 7 days with her. It's awful I know! Anyways when SD8 is with us she goes to a daycamp with my BD11 and we provided that information to BM before summer started. SD8 has told us a few different stories about where she will be staying during the time she is at BM's. BM has 3 kids different daddies and the Thug Life she is with now and her just had a new baby about 1 month. His family is straight up TRASH! Obviously when I heard they stayed with a few of his family members I stalked them on Facebook and was like OMG!

BYE BYE SD8! Hello beautiful week :)

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SD8 went back to BM yesterday at 4, Praise the Lord! Last night my BD11 and SO and I watched a cute movie BD11 picked out, we chilled, and everyone was so happy. No pissing on the toilet either! We all got up this morning and enjoyed a nice stress free morning, no SD8 up at 4:30 screaming Daaddddyyyy every 15 minutes! Ahhhhhh I can breathe! It's going to be a beautiful day in the neighborhood my friends...well at least until Sunday at 4pm but let's not think about that right now! Happy Monday friends!!!!

Update on my Friday night

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Well I had it all planned out and I had the signs up on the doors ( see last blog). The minute SD8 and SO came in they came right outside even though I had the "Do not disturb" sign on the patio door. SD8 said what are you really fixing for dinner, we don't eat sandwiches for dinner. I said "ask your father" . He sends her inside and asks me just what exactly I thought I was doing. LMAO! I said well I'm trying to relax and you need to go inside and spend some quality time with your little princess and leave me alone.

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