We share 50/50 with BM, 7 days with us 7 days with her. It's awful I know! Anyways when SD8 is with us she goes to a daycamp with my BD11 and we provided that information to BM before summer started. SD8 has told us a few different stories about where she will be staying during the time she is at BM's. BM has 3 kids different daddies and the Thug Life she is with now and her just had a new baby about 1 month. His family is straight up TRASH! Obviously when I heard they stayed with a few of his family members I stalked them on Facebook and was like OMG! Anyways, SO was worried about this and I said just text BM and say SD8 has said a few different places she is staying while with you during summer, what exactly are the arrangements for her while school is out? Simple right? OH HELL NO! BM goes into a shit storm of texts about none of your business. I don't ask you what you do with her when she's with you, mind your business, F you, etc... You get the jist.

Is their anything he can do about this? Personally and I know this is mean, but I'm just glad she's not at my house this week so I'm not getting worked up over it. But he is worried that his daughter is not in a good day care setting during the day over the summer while with BM. I know what his CO says and it does have a First Right of Refusal but that wouldn't apply to daycare/babysitting while she is at work. And yes I'm shocked she is actually working! WOW. So anyways, what if anything can he do since she won't tell him and SD8 lies about everything.

Thanks for any suggestions.

PS. And it's another happy day for me because I'm SKID FREE! WOOT WOOT