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DH is mad about SS's room being a guest room
I swear to God I am going to get a divorce before we become empty nesters, with the finish line just 2-1/2 yrs away, and 9yrs of step-hell will have been for nothing.
SS18 has been at college since August. I posted about how we think he's probably going to be coming back for his HS gf, hopefully just transfering to another college, but who knows at this point. Either way, NOT living with us long-term, just for the summer at most- hopefully staying with Crazy. But I digress.
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Pretty sure SS is moving back for his HS GF
DH has not talked to SS18 the Golden child in almost 3 WEEKS. DH is livid because SS is talking about hating college, and we know it's 99% because of his Jr-in-HS gf back home. SS is across the country and has a ton of friends, is in a frat, and this college is amazing for his major. There are HUGE opportunities that he could never get anywhere else. But, a month before he left for college he decided to get super serious with his gf here. WHY. Prior to that they would go weeks without seeing each other.
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Demon comes today
I actually have nervous tummy, dreading it. Last time she was here she asked if she could go to Crazy's Sunday night instead of Monday because it's "more fun there". Whatever, bye! I wanted to ask which part was the most fun, where Crazy yells at her for ruining her relationship, or where she complains to SD that she has SD at her house so she can't have alone time with her BF?
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SS has the brain of a Goldfish
I want to scream. SS18 is one of the most idiotic kids I have ever met in my life. He is like a 12yr old in an 18yr old's body. After forcing a text go through Do Not Disturb a week or so ago at 12:30am on a weeknight asking DH how far down a condom should go on, (it didn't wake DH up, but it did wake me up so I saw it), he called DH last night in a panic.
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DH had a CS hearing yesterday. What a scam!
So DH has been paying Crazy $650/month for Demon and SS18, 50/50 custody. When this was decided 2 years ago, Crazy allegedly made $36K/year, although they accepted that amount without her submitting her taxes or anything. SS graduated high school in June, which is when DH is done with CS in our state. He filed to take him off in July. The CS agency said nope- even with taking SS off, CS wouldn't be reduced by "$50 or 10%", so they wouldn't reduce the payment of $650/month. DH filed to have a judge review.
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Demon got her way- unbelievable
Demon (SD15) has been begging to do online schooling for months. Her big thing is, we are on vacation for 2wks, and she "doesn't understand why she can't just try it for that time while she's at her moms". Because she isn't made for online schooling!! She can't even turn assignments in at regular school! All she wants to do is sleep. And she's NOT going to be home with me while I WFH. Crazy has said she can go there during the day but that is a terrible idea- and we don't trust her. She will make excuses about why she can't go there in no time.
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So over this kid
So last I wrote, SD15 aka Demon was refusing to go to school, but Seeing as how she had no other options, She has been going, and has actually been doing fairly well. She is the Manager of the volleyball team, but still seems to have minimal friends, as tends to happen when you act like she does. She has been working a bit and going to therapy, so that's something.
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Update on SD refusing to go to school
Today was the first day of school and as far as I know....SD15 WENT. Because she realized we were not going to let her get her way no matter how big of a temper tantrum she threw.
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SD is now “refusing” to go to school
Because heaven forbid we just have a bit of peace!
Last week SD15 told DH she doesn't want to go to school. We live in a small town- besides an expensive religious school, it's the only option. DH tells her that. He said next year, when she's a Junior, she will have her license and can drive to the next town's school if she really wants to. Sat. Night DH and I were camping and I got woken up at 3:30am by SD texting DH once again (she made the text go through despite him having his phone on DND) asking him to not go to this school. I was not amused.
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DH's poor choices and the biggest idiot in all the land (BM, not DH) ;)
DH told me that he gave SS18 his old expired Driver's license when he dropped SS off at college. Why. WHY? I said Really?? Why would you do that? DH said "Everyone has them". I said yes, but not from their parents. Like Seriously, if I have to explain this to you DH. Whatever. Also, the DL was cracked down the middle, and SS does not look like a 44 year old man. It's like he's actively trying to get him in trouble. Not my problem. I just keep repeating, SS is gone, SS is gone...