First off, you all are the sweetest, and I truly mean that. Thank you for all of the kind words and thoughts. I really was just sad and everything felt so surreal. I still feel just emotionally exhausted, but at least things are marginally better now.

In the last episode of "Crazy forced SD14 to come to our house and she went feral", DH had put on his rose-colored glasses and done a 180 and was all "I want to make things work with SD" and had changed his mind about filing for an emergency custody change to give Crazy full custody because I had found an intensive 4hr/day intensive therapy program which would magically undo the aggressive PAS she has been exhibiting. Since then: 

- We are still waiting for SD to have the evaluation, so we're not sure if/when she will be starting this program. 

Thank you to all that answered my cries for help. I truly appreciate all of the advice and as much as DH bashes my "SM sites" because he thinks his way of parenting is the only and best way, he was definitely open to any input I relayed to him when I told him I posted this. Here is what has transpired since SD-almost 15 arrived on Sunday. 

This has to be the pinnacle of parental alienation/manipulation. To kick your daughter out of the house with nowhere to go, DH saves her, and yet Crazy is still mother of the year. 

After SD-almost-15 called the cops on DH a month ago, it's been radio silence from her AND Crazy, until a message last week from Crazy saying SD tried to commit suicide...at school...in the bathroom...with a lanyard.... and SD told Crazy about it a few days later.