When BM assumes...
This is a funny but stupid story. There is always at least 1 drama a week with my BM.
DH and I took over a puppy that BM wasn't supposed to have. I wrote her an email for the shot records etc. I want to take the puppy to get spayed. Yes, be a responsible pet owner and she doesn't even now what that word even means!!
I wrote her twice and she still doesn't respond. Well, SS13 told me because I was going to wait in the car until she brought me the papers. Told me that she didn't want me to get the dog spayed because she thought I would ask her for money for it.
OMG! Everything is about her!! This is the most childish thing she has done this month!! I sent her an email about not to put the kids in the middle and be a grown up and at least respond.
So lets wrap it up......BM assumes that I will ask for money to be responsible and refuses email and telephone calls....no honey!! My DH is going after custody because you can't take care of children and with that CS oh...and that money will also take care of your old dog!!
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There will always be drama
Even though we don't really hear much out of BM anymore, she is dating several guys online. We know this because of her disgusting online MySpace chats with these guys. Her most serious relationship out of all of these is some loser in South Dakota who lives in a trailer (with his mom- she owns it) and has several children with several different women, and pays none of the women child support. He does not work. He and BM (according to their myspace posts) are thinking of getting married :sick: BM's parents give her an allowance that includes $$$$ she is supposed to pay us in child support so maybe this nut is thinking that they'll fork over money to him as well for him to pay his child support :sick: :sick:
You really are going
You really are going to send her over the deep end to the land of Prozac. You have the man. Got the dog. And add to that a strong possibility of getting the kids and CS. Whoa Nelly. You will have all sorts of bulls eyes on your back, head, neck, foot, eye, etc. LOL. Some women are idiots. What else can you say.
People who get on HIGH Horses will find the fall to be most painful. ~ME :->
My BM
assumes a lot too.
She assumes that I will do everything for her on her command. She assumes that I will be her puppet just because I'm married to her exH. She assumes that I will worship the very ground she walks on.
Psh. Yeah right.
You go, girl!
oh yes....emailed again.....
She is already so medicated that its a wonder she goes to work......I take that back she don't. BM is a living excuse. Why take responsibility when everyone else is there to pick up the slack?? SS14 is starting to be more and more like her that it makes my skin crawl.
Excuse of a mother (doesn't care about the kids since they grew out of diapers...she only likes the "baby" part. Yes, one of those BMs that "I am having problems with the pill routine" Also still to this day blames H for all her financial issues.
excuse of a wife (cheated and spent every last time they had then still with her hand out for more yes her family enables her I guess since she is the baby she ALWAYS gets what she wants)
I told my DH that I didn't care that BM might bring this up in the custody suit.....I emailed her that she didn't know the meaning of the word responsibility and don't assume anything.
Guess what??? still no answer...
forgot to mention...
in the email I told her
Next time if you have any fears about what I might do, don't assume anything. And definitely don't tell the kids about what your feelings are what might or might not happen. This is classic PAS (yes I assume you know what that term is) I am not that hard to get along with and to talk to.
She googles everything....I figured I will hear about it during the custody hearing...etc.
but couldn't help myself to mention PAS. BM is a classic case.