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BM's getting married next month! Here comes the drama!

Catlover's picture

BM is getting married next month and frankly I am thrilled. I only hope and pray she dumps my last name and takes her new guys! The funny thing is up to this point DH and I had heard nothing about it and seeing as we have 50/50 placement, you'd think she'd want to get things organized early. Last night we finally get an email demanding extra days next month for her schedule with us being the taxis. IE...."need the kids from 4-8pm on XYZ for haircuts...need the kids XYZ from 9am-11am for family stuff etc" in addition she wants the kids for the 10 days of the month for "the wedding." What? Is she having one of those 10 day weddings???? Ha Ha. So DH writes back nicely and says hey, you can have them for the first 1/2 of the month....I'll take the second 1/2. Oh and by the way...I'm not shuttling them back and forth for incidental appointments.

This woman is going to be truly an episode of Bridezilla waiting to happen!!!! Oh...and a little additional funny background... She and her fiance got engaged at the same place she got engaged to DH....she tried to book the same reception place that DH and I had (but it was booked) and she made an appointment at the same spa that I had gone to prior to the wedding...... yup not a lot of creativity there!

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Amazed's picture

sounds like she is reliving the thrill of her first marriage...

good for your DH though!! It's really refreshing that he isn't giving in to her every whim for the schedule.

*pouting* I wish our BM would run off and get married...it's a personal fantasy of mine. Isn't that sick?! lol, I fantasize about my husbands ex wife getting married! I wish there was some way to pay a man to marry her she has been divorced for a while and simply can't stick with a man to save her life. Poor thing.

"We all have different desires and needs, but if we don't discover what we want from ourselves and what we stand for, we will live passively and unfulfilled.”

livinthedream's picture

BM is finally getting married after being divorced from DH for 11 yrs. So the dude she had affair with is finally marrying her.

Abigail's picture

WishBM was getting married here. Maybe yours will move on and leave you alone.

"I know God has a wonderful plan for me, I just wish He would tell me what it is"

Abigail's picture

WishBM was getting married here. Maybe yours will move on and leave you alone.

"I know God has a wonderful plan for me, I just wish He would tell me what it is"

BMJen's picture

BM hasn't been on a date since the divorce, 4 years ago. I guess marriage is a dream that will never come to be.

I'm very happy for you though! I suggest you guys have a huge bash at your house the same day of the wedding to celebrate!

~All you need is Faith, Trust, and a little bit of Pixie Dust~

DoingItAgain's picture

Geez, I could only wish my ex (BioDad) would get remarried and move on but I don't think he's been on a date since the divorce in 2005 (hell, I think our last date was our honeymoon in 1999!). But then I'd have to feel bad for this women knowing the mess she's getting her self into.. not with me but the ex's paranoid, dillusional, personally disorder, disneyland dad behavior! It will never work. He will probably die a very sad, pathetic lonely man.

lovin_my_life's picture

My ex thank GOD was remarried back in March (he's an okay guy and his new wife is amazing).

Our BM however, has been dating the same guy for 1.5yrs. During a conversation regarding flowers my DH gave me for Mothers Day SD6 said, "daddy, I remember when you gave mommy flowers. She still has them. Maybe you can send her some too." DH explained (for the 1,000,000th time) that he is not going to send mommy flowes ever again, and her BF should be sending them. SD6 then said, "Well, he's her BF but she's just not willing to maryy him right now"..... Well I'm just sure she came up with that one on her own....

"I aint no Carol Brady"

hopeful12's picture

Funny thing is I went to BM'S myspace today and it says "really confused about realtionships???? after 1-2 yrs ???? where should a couple be ???? engaged? living together??? what ???
I think my BM is marriage wishing! I will help her, if she can just go away from me Wink
~Step Parents of a feather stick together!~

bioandstep2009's picture

I hope that BM marries the guy she's living with so that we can get out of paying undeserved alimony!

lovin_my_life's picture

We know that BM will get married the day after her last alimony payment... seriously! Of course she's going to make DH pay every penny he was ordered to....I mean every penny HE OFFERED!

"I aint no Carol Brady"