Or will it ever? I guess that is the million dollar question, right? UGH! I am becoming so frustrated lately. IF you have read my previous blogs, you know why. Well, after SD left on Christmas Day to go to sugarmama's, I was hoping that the move would be permanent. No such luck! I told DH that I would ONLY allow her back in the home IF she understood that she MUST respect me in my home..... no growling at me when she is told to do something and NO smart mouthyness, etc. So, she came back Sunday night.......grrrrrr.

So, yesterday, DH asked SD what she got for Christmas from sugarmama and her family. This, of course, cannot be a simple question. This turned into an hour long conversation about how much SD hates sugarmama and sugarmama's extended family and her sister (other SD). Seems that sugarmama told SD that she would only give her gift cards b/c we would steal the cash from her. This is where her paranoid schizophrenic mental illness comes into play. Also seems that she has managed to convince the entire extended family that we taks all SD's cash and won't let her spend it? (Not that I need to clarify this, but we have NEVER taken a dime from that child!) Other SD19, has a 7mo old and lives with sugarmama and baby daddy in sugarmama's 2 bdrm apt in a small town in the middle of nowhere. This is about 45 miles form where we live in a large city. SD19 has been working Friday-Monday nights from 6 or 7 pm to 4 to 5 AM. SD 19 has a car, but it needs new tires...it is a small car and the tires would only cost about 100-125 for all four. So, since she cant drive her car, she has been making sugarmama take her the 45 min drive to work and then pack up her baby and come back and get her dead ass from work everyday she works. Baby daddy (loser) has decided he wants another job, so he can buy new shoes. This takes his car out of the mix right... Let me also state that sugarmama takes care of said baby 24/7. I DID mention she is mentally ill right? But, so are both SDs. So, this poor kid has NO chance at life. We only saw this kid once, when she was born and SD wanted something....she refuses to speak to DH now. She's concocted some type of lies in her head that he beat her when she lived with us????? Anywho, SD19 takes advantage of Bm's mom by going into her purse and stealing money from her. SD16 said that while she was there Christmas Day, SD19 stole 200 from GMA's purse. Then turned around and demanded that GMA give her more money, which the GMA did. So, you would think that SD19 bought new tires right? Wrong, she bought herself a 300 purse and a pr of 100 shoes. These people make me sick! They live off the government and yet they can buy 300 purses and 100 pr of shoes while I work my ass of to pay for it all!
I swear all these people are nuts. BM's brother is on disability too for being mentally ill. The GMA is Japanese and is of course submissive to everyone around her. She speaks limited english but did manage to tell SD16 that if she moved back in with us that she would not speak to her ever again...nice huh?
So, back in the summer when SD16 was living w/sugarmama, she didn't have enough money to buy SD new glasses b/c she blew all hers on clothes. (she gets 3000/mo disability, which by the way is more than I make working!) So, she conned GMA into paying for SD's glasses to the tune of $400. Fine I say, not my money. Well, our insurance requires you to file with them and they will reimburse you. SO, DH finally got around to sending in the claim which they only reimbursed her $100 of the total purchase b/c the designer glasses are not covered....dumbasses! So, I am going to send the check to GMA today to reimburse her $100. I REALLY DO NOT want to b/c she will just give it to SD19 to blow...... Plus, I was going to include a not so nice letter about SD16 being threatened, etc...and how wrong it all is. What are your thoughts? It seems like we can never get away from these people. Oh, by the way, I forgot to mention that GMA and her 88 y/o live in BF live 1 block from us.....they seemed to find it necessary to move to our street not long AFTER we bought our house. I am POSITIVE that BM had a hand in that!