Will She Ever Stop Calling?????
Seriously? Now that BM and I are not on speaking terms, she calls DH 4 or 5 times a day. FOR NO REASON... come on lady- he is not going to get back together with you... it doesn't make him and I fight... there is no emergancy with SS... what the hell do you want??? All it is doing is making her look REALLY stupid. She calls last night (several times) but the last call she informed DH that she needs to discuss a few "issues" with him, was this a good time. He said NO, I am spending time with SS now, since you have taken up most of my evening by calling every 10 minutes- you can call me tomorrow at 7 pm and we can talk. So what does she do??? Calls him at 2 o clock this afternoon. He put it into voice mail as he ALWAYS does during work hours... but I bet my shirt she will call right at 5 o clock... you think she is just trying to catch him when she knows I am not with him? Well, he won't answer it then either, they had an appointment to talk at 7 he will answer at 7 should she choose to call at the scheduled time.
Aggrovating, to say the least.
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It's 7:45... what's going on in YOUR world?!
Why do they do this? We went through this, too, for awhile. We ended up having to have our numbers changed, then only gave her his cell number and our home email address for contact. Eventually, she got bored and gave up, but it is sooooo irritating while it's going on. So, did she call?! Was it the emergency to end all emergencies?!
~ Anne ~
Ladies and gentlemen, take my advice: Pull down your pants and slide on the ice! -M*A*S*H (Sidney Freedman to the OR staff on dealing with stress)
She did call at 7:15
It was soooo important for her to tell him AGAIN that she does not want SS on MY Health Insurance- FINE lady, if you want to deny SS of a PPO at NO COST TO YOU, and continue to take him to COUNTY Health services that just goes to show how immature you are. He just told her that we are putting him on there anyways and she can take us to court if she is that butt hurt about it... I don't think any JUDGE would tell her she is right in that situation. Then she HAD to tell him that she considers Saturdays HER day (even though we have him from Thursday morning till 5 pm on Saturday) because he sleeps at her house that night. So when we switch weekends we owe her a day for Saturday and for Sunday... she is nuts. He just told her that she is being petty and she only has her own best interest in mind, and that we will not switch weekends now, but utilize our vacation and she won't see him for 2 weeks straight. She changed her tune real quick.
So, at the end of the day she really called for nothing... just as I suspected. He did tell her to stop calling and that he was no longer answering her calls. If there is an emergancy to leave a message and he will call her back. It is 10:14 am and she has not yet called (knock on wood). Strange strange woman.
Being an BIO
I am not understanding the phone calls either. The only thing I can speculate is jealousy or she wants him back. I being an ex wife do not call my ex about anything unless I need too. We are friendly to one another but I call my husband about things even things with my children first.
I wish I knew the answers to these questions. I should I am a bio but I am not a nut either.
Daddysgirl - your husband sounds like he feels exactly the way you do. Tell you what the next time she calls answer his phone yourself but make it sound like you two are romping in the bedroom. I am pretty sure she may finally get the hint.. LOL
Happy
" make sure you tell the people you love most EVERYDAY.. Its important not only for them to know but for you to tell.. Life is to short to be miserable..
2ND WIFE & WILL ALWAYS BE 2ND DIL TO MIL
I have been married to my 3rd hubby for a little over 2 years. My MIL hates me and still loves the ex-wife. The ex-wife is in the medical field. My hubby had a heart attack in Jan. My first call was to his mother. When she showed up, she asked me if I had called the ex-wife? or my hubby's 13 years old son. THEN, wanted to know why I chose 'this' hospital.... I answered the barrage of questions, calmly and sincerely. Later that evening, while my husband recovered in the Cardiac Care Unit, in walks the ex-wife with the son, passing my husband's family---nobody, I mean NOBODY not one of them stopped her!!! I was calm and she left quickly. But, I told his family later, that could be considered attempted murder!!! hee hee Laughing at them has been my only salvation..... : (
My Hubby
He is awesome and has NEVER made me feel second to her. My feelings are always always taken into consideration and come first and foremost. She swears she does not want him back and would not "take" hime back even if he asked. But I know her better than she thinks, and she WOULD- without hesitation. I could almost see her moving right into OUR house and not even skip a beat- you know, sleep in OUR bed, even wear MY clothes if I left them. She is just a little on the twisted side. When she first found out about me she would call endlessly. No joke- 10- 15 times in a row.
So, I love my husband for taking an stand with her, and it is more of an annoyance than anything else. She has admitted to her emense jealousy of mine and DH's relationship, and where we have ended up in life career wise. I think she lets it take over her mind a little too often when she should be focusing on taking care of herself and SS, and maybe even finding a man of her own to torture : )
Love the "romping" idea! In fact DH tells her sometimes when she asks :why didn't you answer my call it was after work hours" he says "ummmm WE were BUUUUSSSYYY, wasn't going to stop to answer the phone". She does get the hint for a while... it never lasts though.
In my situation
I know my DBF and his EW speak everyday on the phone. He explains he calls to talk to his kids everyday. Great! But once I started cringing at the mention of her name and he knew I felt uncomfortable about their friendship he began to change their convos from a few things said to a few words. He said this hurt her feelings. What?! excuse me?? I'm your GF - the one you said you want to marry someday and you care about your ex's feelings? BLAH! She's even called when she knows I'm with him. She's called him about his daughter having an issue about SOCKS! Goodness! Can you parent on your own lady?
My summary (and you know it) that woman has issues. People need to know where their boundaries are and I'm glad he told her call at 7.