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swstepmom's picture

Once again my ss10 called at the crack of dawn this morning to let my dh know that his spring break is "coming up" I wasn't all sweet about him this morning simply because I am still frustrated that our lives are in limbo because of the whole situation. I'm talking about my last post about not being able to get the house and that being the only thing holding us back....long story short the only thing i said was i didn't care who talked to bm because she is always in our lives anyway......so now we are fighting again. Go figure! Hate it when ss calls in the mornings!

mamameeya's picture

me too... it just sucks. thankfully we an come here to vent. it could be worse and i always try to remind myself of this so as to not get depressed. it can always be worse.

swstepmom's picture

Welcome to the site! I can't tell you how much this site has helped me, if anything has allowed me a healthy way to vent! How long have you been with your fiance? Sounds to me like your soon to be skids are ungrateful or maybe just don't know any better because of a lack of proper raising? I can relate to how you feel especially the part of not being able to stand them even calling the house......Drives me nuts.....But know that you are not alone in how you feel!

liks's picture

Guys.....I used to have the brats call at 7ish every morning...for no apparent reason. oh and the bloody ex bitch

not any more...

one night the phone kept ringing and by the last call at midnight....I answered and said....I dont care who the hell you are but you can go and get F'd!

then to stop the morning calls after the continues buzzz I ended up getting very shitty with Dh, cos he is the one picking the phone up - Im trying to get some extra sleep....It used to start our day off so horribly so then he went to turning the phone off and now the phones are all out of the bedroom and downstairs in the kitchen where we cant hear them...

I said to DH how I really didnt mind his kids calling him..but I keep thinking that its his ex bitch that tells them to do so in an attempt to annoy us.....

eventually he agreed.

They still call the cell, or they txt with absolute rubbish which gets my DH down...just a bunch of nasty nutters....hate the lot of em

so try that option....and yes...this site has helped me so much

before I logged into it...I actually thought I wasnt a nice person or there was something wrong with me....