Oh gross. My mother in law just sent me an email from the ex
My mother in law just forwarded an email to me that she got from my husbands ex. I didn't know they were still in touch. Here it is copy and paste. With comments from me in brackets and I plugged in 4ever when she's talking about me, sorry if it's confusing. what a lunatic she is.
'Hi!!!! Long time no talk. I hope you saw the pictures I sent xxx [my hsband]. Don't we [her and her daughter} look GORGEOUS?!?!?! [no, my husband didn't send the pics, he deleted them ick]. I'm sure you know that 4ever refuses to talk to me. Who knows why!!!! I've been nothing but nice to that woman. She's always been a stuck up snob to me but I turn the other cheek like Jesus and I have tried. You have to know that because I'm sure she's making up all kinds of lies about me. I live every day by MY TRUTH and I am raising my daughter without any help from your son [Really? When he has her half the time and pays for everything?] I guess 4ever is done pretending to be MY GIRL'S mother!!! I always said that was pathetic and maybe she wouldn't be so desperate if she had children. She used my daughter long enough playing house with your son. Now she's being a baby and not replying to emails from me and blocking me on her phone but whatever. She blocked me on Facebook too. For no reason!!! I don't care. I will raise xxx [stepdaughter] to be a strong female just like HER MOMMA!! I don't know what 4ever's game is but my baby girl is better off without her. You can tell 4ever that. Everything I do is for my daughter!!!!! You know that.
Sigh. yes I wish my mother in law wouldn't have forwarded that ridiculousness I rarely think of the ex anymore. But when I do I can tell you this. I hate her. I've never hated anyone in my life but I hate her. I know thats not healthy but its true. I didn't respond to my other in law, I didn't share this with my husband and I'm not going to. Now I'm taking the dogs for a long walk to shake this off. Thanks for listening!
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Oh trust me, the word HATE
Oh trust me, the word HATE comes to mind to in regards to our Ex/BM. Along with a few other words. Good for you for not responding or sharing. That is exactly what shes looking for, a reaction, from anyone that will give it! Silence is golden!!!
"but I turn the other cheek
"but I turn the other cheek like Jesus"
LOLOLOLOLOLOL
So help me understand. Is she upset because you pretended to be SD's mother and used her to play house or because you stopped.
This woman is a piece of work.
you too?! the only way we can
you too?! the only way we can "win" is with silence.
it cracked me up too. I think
it cracked me up too. I think she's pissed no matter what I do I can't make sense of it either
you crack me up!
you crack me up!
good advice Sally!
good advice Sally!
Wow! BMs jealousy of you in
Wow! BMs jealousy of you in that is so evident!
I can SO relate to the photos thing with you, BM had photos of her and the kids taken and she gave DH a bunch, including an 8x10 and wallet of BM, 7 years after the divorce. WTF!
Woman is weird!
I am sure mil sent that to
I am sure mil sent that to you so you could see how crazy bm is. I would respond very politely that you are disengaging from bm and would appreciate it if mil didn't forward any emails from her. Also, I would keep a copy for your records. This woman is obviously deranged.
So is MIL siding with BM or
So is MIL siding with BM or warning you of the lies that BM is telling?
my mother in law is very
my mother in law is very protective of me. she just wanted me to know what the ex is up to. and she's bored and wants me to call so we can talk about how awful the ex is. but I don't do that anymore as fun as itd be!
I'm glad she is on your side
I'm glad she is on your side and you don't have another front to your battle.
LOL. Pure trash. "MY
LOL. Pure trash.
"MY GIRL'S"
and
"JESUS"
Use of caps lock and stupidity go hand in hand.
Just like men with crazy mothers selecting crazy women to have kids with. The correlation between crazy BMs AND crazy MILs is not a coincidence.
ha ha it is entertaining
ha ha it is entertaining isn't it? she's 53 years old believe it or not
"i turn the other cheek like
"i turn the other cheek like Jesus."
LMAO
kinda reminds me of missstress' PBR swiggin', poutine stuffin', gravy drippin', john denver lovin' Child of God BM...
Tuff, don't be dissing John
Tuff, don't be dissing John Denver!!
lol i'm not! but her bm was
lol i'm not! but her bm was obsessed with him to the point of making pilgrimages to colorado :? :? :?
and by the way, i LURVE poutine (well, the version known as gravy fries where i grew up)- so no diss there either.
Confession: I've never had
Confession: I've never had poutine. I very much like cheese curds, but just haven't tried the poutine. Not sure anywhere around here even serves that.
oh aniki just make it
oh aniki just make it yourself!!! it's easy
either make your own thicker-cut homemade fries, or buy frozen ones. brown gravy, or you can mix brown and chicken gravy (powdered, jarred, homemade, whatever you prefer). add cheese curds. (although i admit, i've never had cheese curds!!! where i grew up they melted mozzarella over top instead)
badda bing, badda boom! poutine!!!
My fat butt does NOT need any
My fat butt does NOT need any of that!! LOL! And chicken gravy is the devil. Blech!!!
Oh boy, sounds like a
Oh boy, sounds like a conversation that BM here would have with my MIL. Only difference, my MIL would have initiated the conversation, and it would have been a lot more scathing than that!! ^^^
that's terrible I'm sorry!
that's terrible I'm sorry!
She sounds awful! No matter
She sounds awful! No matter what you do, in her eyes, you will be wrong. So do nothing but ask MIL to avoid talking to you about this shit! It sounds awful and I am sure it took right back to feelings you had when she was in your life.
yes it sure did. ugh. I feel
yes it sure did. ugh. I feel better after a long walk tho
What is your relationship
What is your relationship with your MIL?
If she forwarded this out of malice or to try to start drama, ignore ignore ignore.
If she forwarded it because the crazy lady sent some crazy and MIL doesn't know what to do with it, reply with something concise like "Goodness, someone is trying hard to start some drama! I'm sorry you're getting dragged in and thank you for forwarding it as an FYI. We'll ignore it. It's the only way to keep peace in our lives."
she didn't mean any harm,
she didn't mean any harm, she's on my side. that's a great reply thanks!
What your MIL needs to do, is
What your MIL needs to do, is tell that bitch off for saying that her son is doing nothing to help raise his daughter. WTF?
Too bad your MIL sent that to
Too bad your MIL sent that to you. More unnecessary toxicity that you don't need.
What a bloody hypocritical
What a bloody hypocritical twatwaffle. She sounds like BioHo, the lying, cheating skank. Thinks that if she speaks of God and Jesus, it makes her a Christian and that's she holier-than-thou. Blech.
{{{HUGS}}} that you had to read that dribble.
Oh this sounds just like our
Oh this sounds just like our BM!
She would never send MIL an email though. She stopped talking to MIL after MIL told her to stop talking trash about her son. The same stuff, he's no help, I'm doing it all myself, he's such an assh*le. That was the point that MIL said you do remember he's MY son, right?
She's gone so far as to say that she was a single mother when they were married. He work so much that she raised the kids alone. Yeah, right, alone after 10 in the morning, he got the kids up and took them to school. Alone after they'd had dinner when he went back to work. Oh and the reason he worked so much, so that BM could spend her days shopping!
I would respond to MIL, "Hi
I would respond to MIL,
"Hi MIL,
We did get BM's pictures of CHILD, but YOUR SON threw them out because BM only sent pictures with herself next to CHILD and he didn't want to hang up pictures of BM.
I showed YOUR SON the email from BM and her comment about raising CHILD with no help from him really upset him.
I'm sorry that BM only contacts you to say bad things about me and your son.
Hopefully one day she will move past whatever hang up she has with us and the two of you can have a better relationship for the sake of CHILD."
Can MIL reply with a photo of
Can MIL reply with a photo of you and your DH and say "Don't they look gorgeous!" }:) }:)