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Wow! My father in law replied to the ex

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Submitted by 4ever on Fri, 09/25/2015 - 9:36pm

I took everybody's advice and forwarded that crazy email to my husband and replied to my mother in law, 'please done worry about this and no need to share these with me, the ex is just trying to stir up trouble."

but get this My father in law replied to the ex! He forwarded his reply to me and my husband. He is the head is the family for sure, a man of few words. I knew he approved of me I just didn't know he felt so strongly. I think he was pissed that the ex tried to involve his wife. I just hope this doesn't start WWIII

Oh gross. My mother in law just sent me an email from the ex

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Submitted by 4ever on Thu, 09/24/2015 - 9:40am

My mother in law just forwarded an email to me that she got from my husbands ex. I didn't know they were still in touch. Here it is copy and paste. With comments from me in brackets and I plugged in 4ever when she's talking about me, sorry if it's confusing. what a lunatic she is.

My husband told me he chooses me

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Submitted by 4ever on Tue, 09/08/2015 - 11:31am

My hsuband and i had a heart to heart over the weekend. Apparently his ex called him again to tell him that there daughter wants to live with her full time which they tried last spring and after a week she texted her dad and said "mom is driving me crazy this isn't working for me!!!!' So my husband has already decided that she needs to stick with her schedule (50/50) and he'll talk with her when she gets here today for her week here.

I was really embarrassed for my stepdaughter

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Submitted by 4ever on Thu, 08/27/2015 - 11:51pm

Tonight we had a block party at our community pool and we were talking to a new family who just moved in. My husband my stepdaughter and me. The mom was out of town so it was the dad and his two daughters who ar 10 and 8. My stepdaughter is 12 and the girls seemed nice so we were glad they were all getting along. At one point, the younger girl says to my stepdaughter "your mom is really pretty" and my stepdaughter corrected her and said "she's not my mom she's my stepmom".

I think the only solution is to ignore my husband's ex

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Submitted by 4ever on Thu, 08/20/2015 - 2:42pm

I blocked my husband's ex from Facebook, my phone and email because she's annoying and intrusive and i don't need to be in contact with her. My husband handles all that when stuff comes up about his daughter (she's 12). Anyway, i guess the crazy woman has decided she's going to intrude no matter what. Yesterday my stepdaughter gave me a note from her mom that said "Thank you SO MUCH for taking my daughter camping!!! My boyfriend and I take the kids all the time but I guess there's always a first for you!!! I'm just SO GLAD she's actually getting out in MOTHER NATURE with her dad.

Back to school is hard

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Submitted by 4ever on Sat, 08/15/2015 - 1:03pm

After a summer of disengagement with a few bumps in the road but mostly success I'm finding it really hard to step back now that school is starting. I am usually the one who takes my stepdaughter (she's 12) to get her school supplies and back to school clothes. Apparently the ex told my husband to get the school supplies since her parents are buying new clothes. My husband is traveling for work this week and its taking all my self control not to get involved. We have time to get her stuff before the first week of school when my husband is back but still its hard for me to not step in.

OMG. give up, you crazy woman!

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Submitted by 4ever on Thu, 07/30/2015 - 12:40pm

My husband's ex posted a picture to Facebook yesterday with her, her daughter, her boyfriend's daughter and her boyfriend's daughter's stepsister.

The caption said 'To be a great stepmom you have to be a MOM!!! For some people that's just impossible for me it comes natural. Look at my gorgeous girls!!! Even my stepdaughter's stepsister calls me MOMMA!!" Her friends posted LOL comments and one said 'talking about the barren bitch who took your leftovers"?? and the ex replied 'yep is it that obvious?! LOL'

Disengagement FAIL

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Submitted by 4ever on Thu, 07/16/2015 - 3:06pm

I don't have many of these but today I messed up with my stepdaughter. My husband is at a conference today and asked if I could take her to/from camp adn I agreed to, its no big deal. my husband arranged the camp which is great, thats something I used to do and now he does it.

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