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Struggling stepmum's picture

Submitted by Struggling stepmum on Thu, 08/08/2013 - 11:36pm

Why do our Hs ways expect us to be the doormat? Why do we have to tolerate all the skids and exs behaviour and trouble making rumour spreading, endless list! Why ca t they for once tell them to shut up and tolerate us? Is it because they would ratheroae us than them? Are they still too engaged with their 'real' family?

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Starla's picture

Submitted by Starla on Fri, 08/09/2013 - 1:49am

No, it is the opposite for me ever since my DH realized the truth/facts. Disney dads are only Disney dads until they open their eyes IMO. For me with my DH..it took years but he did eventually figure it out.

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Submitted by Meh on Fri, 08/09/2013 - 2:48am

Yes I think you've found the heart of it. They put their efforts in where it really matters to them. And it's not with us.

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Submitted by Struggling stepmum on Sat, 08/10/2013 - 7:31am

I gave my H the benefit of the doubt. He hasn't me down already. Trying to get him to leave is harder than living with him!