Applied for an injunction this afternoon as H phoned up begging to come home. I told him calmly no and contact between us at present should be only about our child. I don't think I can cope with more than that. He then after I refused to talk sent a stream of texts swearing. It was enough for the police to act this time. He is not allowed to come to the house or near me for the next three months. After dealing with that I get a call from the psychiatrist who saw him.

Don't k ow if anyone is interested or not but according to my solicitor he has the right to provide a home for his child the same as I have. The judge would possibly decide in my favour as our baby has no other options. That is going to take approx 12 weeks to be seen. In the meantime to keep my kids safe I am going to have to give up my home. That automatically gives him more rights than me. My ex has offered to take my BD and my HS and my son unofficialy. That way they receive the care but they are officially living with me. His gf will help him.

After all my plans I was informed yesterday by H that as SD13 officially is still his full time responsibility (she went to BM a month ago) he has as much right legally to stay in the house as me. At least until she is 18. I have yet to confirm with my solicitor but my online research backs him up. How can after 15 years of supporting this house I be expected to hand it over to him and worse the SD that started all the arguing in the first place! Does anyone have any knowledge about this?

After little sleep and Hs sarcastic comments I lost it and sacked him round the head with my BDs boppit toy of all things! Aptly named. Then I called the police and said if they didnt remove I was likely to beat him to death. I swear the idiot ( sporting a black eye and head cuts) was actuay proud of me?? He was even laughing. They have told to go away for a few hours but as I hit him this time I didn't have any say. Can't believe how I behaved