How many of you out there have husbands who changed for good. And how?. I've heard from ladies that after similar experiences to me accepted no change was ever going to happen. That is where I am now. Any of you have any positive stories? I am looking at secretly leaving this life. Is there any hope left??

Sorry to go on today but it is so helpful to write this down. H is now getting angry with me. He said I bet she asks me to come back. Big pause. I said nothing. His response, "what am I going to say?". My response, she doesn't listen to a word you say and she's failing at school. Obviously she needs a change of parenting style while still young. And then he said but you can help me, what do I do I need advice. My response get lost, get a counsellor. Last time I 'helped' at your request I got undermined and two black eyes from a flying book. What a cheek! Am I wrong here?

Need some advice. SD13 moved in with husband and I two years ago at my insistence after falling out with BM. Two weeks ago she had contact with her for the first time in those years. Her choice. Three days ago she picked a fight with her dad took most of her things and moved back to BM. My husband is devastated as she has been a mini wife to him. Pretty much wrecked my marriage and made my life a misery. Partly her fault mostly BMs vendetta against me through the whole of my relationship. Largely now I feel my husband is to blame for his ridiculous parenting.