My husband is wonderful and very loving and is a wonderful father to his daughter. I would do anything for this man, y'know? Who wouldn't lay down the necessary sacrifices for their loved ones/significant other just so they can be happy or won't have to suffer? My husband just doesn't realize how much he's being taken advantage of by his daughter's mother. He got trapped in the first place, and while I believe that NO child is a mistake, he should have been a little more weary of laying down in the rain with someone without a raincoat on, even when she says "it's ok". And now, his eyes are still closed and no matter how much I try to explain things to him, he just doesn't get it. Maybe he doesn't want to? He's so scared of losing his child if he disagrees with the mother about anything. He refuses to stand up to her when she belittles him... I guess I need to pray more or something. Pray that his eyes be opened to the truth and the manipulation that's being produced... I can't stand when people use their children as pawns for their own selfish needs... but it makes it even worse when the man I love can't stand up for himself. Tonight is the last time I'm gonna try and discuss the matter with him. Show a bit of tough love and tell it to him straight. Cause if things are going like they are... we won't be able to have a family with kids of our own... God help me.