I once asked DH WTF these men see in BM, no response.

Not attractive, manipulative, has two kids who are out of control when with her, not responsible for anything, has no money, no job, no prospects and finds men who are not always the sharpest knives in the drawers but not bad guys. What does she bring to the table? DH tells me she uses sex (shudder at that thought) to get them and then shuts it off when she gets married. I don't see the draw.

Her newest victim is a nice guy, seems to be a good Dad to his own kids, really tries hard with the skids (no easy task), and you can see that he is manipulated by BM. I feel sad for him because I know where he is going to end up. BM and GBM are President and VP of their local chapter of the man haters club. BM will emasculate him at any given chance after they are married and will PAS the skids with him also. (BM needs EVERYONE on her side) BM is a liar, who knows the stories she has told the new BF, but if like the last husband I am sure we are the devil's sister and brother. Everything was our fault.

After meeting the new BF/Fiancé I asked DH if he ever wanted to warn the poor guy. DH told me that maybe this guy will be different. I had to laugh, they are all different but BM is the same, she will ruin another one.

I sometimes feel bad for BMs fiancé. I think that he's the type to stick it out. Hopefully BM will do the same. At least give SDs a chance at stability. They seem super in love to the point of obsession so I don't know if that's healthy or not. But life got so much easier when he came along so I can't say anything bad about the guy other than what a sucker!!

I feel bad for BM2 soon to be hubby. I have no idea what 38 year old BM did to snare a 21 year old into her web??? I mean what in God's name is the attraction? Yes, BM is cute but that's as far as it goes... she belongs to a weird religious cult thingy that she is obsessed with, she's a PT waitress, never had a "career", has 2 illegitimate kids, one (not DH's) who is sitting his ass in jail right now, and she's a bitch.

My best guess is the guy only has one nut or something that makes him undesirable to chicks his own age, or maybe some type of "mommy" issue?? Whatever the case, I will bet money that this unholy union won't last long and this poor guy will have wasted some what should be the best years of his life with miss skanky pants and her loser kids. oh well, live and learn.

Our BM stole her new hubby, she worked for him many years ago and during that time my SK's came to me with letters their BM had hidden under her bed stating the love she had for her boss and they were having an affair. They were suppose to wait until the last one of this 3 daughters started college (my guess to avoid CS) he saw how much BM received from my DH most likely! :jawdrop:
However, he lost his job before that happened so suddenly he disappeared until around 3 years ago and he reappears and they are now engaged and suprise he is now divorced and he has one daughter graduated from college and the other two are in college. They had a fairy tale wedding and now a year later his daughters want nothing to do with BM because they kinda figured out what she did. Karma is a biotch BM!!!!!! You have been nipping in my SK's ears for years about me and DH and causing problems.

BM's DH was/is in for a rude awakening. His ex-wife is sane. She lets him have his kids more than the CO states and she has never taken him back for an increase in CS in the 8 years they have been divorced.

I am not sure how much of the situation with BM and my DH he knows about. I'm sure she has spun it to where she is the VICTIM, like usual. Probably NO mention at ALL about her lack of parenting, lack of working and lack of cooking....as well as her being the town bicycle when she was with DH.

He is going to be so screwed if they break up. He will not only have to pay her CS, he will have to pay ALIMONY as well. Poor guy. I'm sure she will wait at least until his kids (her skids) are out on their own so their CS doesn't interfere with hers! She's smart like that.

According to my MIL, they were already fighting like cats and dogs. And that was BEFORE she got preggo again and they got married! That's all she knows. Pure dysfunction.

i have no empathy for dumbass' 2nd ExH or her current SO. they were both 'in the chute' when whatever current relationship at the time was falling apart. and now skids tell us they're going on vacation next week w/ ExH#2... and not current SO who she shacks up with most of the time. ExH#2 is just as dumb as dumbass. and SO shoulda seen it coming too as they started together when she was still married to and living w/ ExH#2. stupid stupid stupid. nope, no empathy whatsoever.

I don't feel sorry for BM's DH at all. He's a putz. She owns him. She actually convinced the guy to move across the country to be with her and be a "family" her and the skids........while leaving his own child behind. He sees his own kid once a year now for two weeks. Awesome. I don't care how much she's claims he's a "wonderful father" to the skids. He's a shitty one to his own kid.