We didn't even have skids this week and I am still fired up and had to hold myself back from texting SS16 a piece of my mind. 
 

SS16's assistant basketball coach is literally one of the nicest guys I know- he is also DH and my friend, and comes over to our house for get-togethers. He always chats with SS16 and knows SD13 through school also. DH told me that SS text him the other day and said "The next time I see that fat assistant coach I'm going to punch him in the face". DH told him to remember who he's talking to- he's not SS's friend, he's his parent and this isn't something you tell a parent, and then asked what happened. The coach was giving SS advice about basketball and then said he heard SS has been working out and joked he probably has been working out his fingers playing video games more than anything. SS was pissed and claimed the coach was being a jerk. 1. The coach wasn't wrong 2. SS jokes about EVERYTHING and has a great sense of humor. The coach was joking with SS because that's what we all do! DH told SS to calm down, the coach was joking and since when couldn't SS take a joke? SS insisted he was being a jerk, which he absolutely wasn't because this guy is so freaking nice. I told DH maybe SS could try punching the coach when him and his gf pick me up on Wed night to go to a Friendsgiving...let's see if he's so tough when he's actually here.
 

I am pissed. A 16yr old thinks he's going to call our friend FAT and threaten to punch him in the face?? No. I am very protective of friends and no one would get away with saying that. I told DH I'm pretty mad and I hope he plans on addressing it in person. He said he will. I said SS needs to know it's not ok to call people fat, and that he needs to respect adults. None of this is acceptable. I told DH I'm glad he's going to talk to him, because if he didn't, I would, but no one would like the way I would handle it. DH said he's more apt to give SS the benefit of the doubt and wonder what else might be going on with him since he usually isn't like this (debatable). I said I understand that, just as long as you also make it crystal clear that this isn't ok. DH agreed. 
 

The same freaking day, DH told me that SS text him and said Crazy was mad and yelling at him and he didn't know what to do- apparently he was supposed to text her when he got to a football game Thurs night, and again when he left, but he didn't text at all because he "wasn't looking at his phone" *eyeroll*...so Crazy told him he's disrespectful and hates her and he's grounded and couldn't go to the college football game yesterday that some girl had invited him to. SS told DH "that isn't fair to the girl though because she didn't do anything and she bought me a ticket". So he was trying to somehow get DH to bail him out- which, DH and Crazy do not get along, at all, I don't know what he thought DH would do, even if he agreed with SS, which he didn't. DH said, idk what to tell you man, you need to find a way to communicate with your mom, I can't help you. Well well well SS, if it isn't the consequences of your own actions... he thinks he doesn't have to listen to anyone and he can just make excuses and get away with everything. Crazy never punishes SS, so we'll be surprised if she enforced that punishment. 

DH said he doesn't know what to do with him, or SD. They are both a lot right now and it's ALWAYS something. I completely agree, and they come tomorrow for a week, most of which they have off school for. I'm absolutely dreading it. I don't even want to look at SS, much less talk to him.