It couldn't have gone any worse, even I didn't expect how badly it would go. Bm pretty much crucified him. Dh is no good at putting points across, remembering examples or dates, so yes he just looked an idiot.

I think he knows this and was upset and embarrassed, so came home n took it all out on yours truly. Apparently it's now all my fault, wouldn't have got to this stage If it wasn't for my hostility, I hate his son. Ahh that old chestnuts back. I can jest but it was too much to take it really was. I said please stop it's game over .  Well then I even got accused of wanting to run off with a pensioner friend who's property portfolio we've been steadily trying to buy. That's a new one. Hey there must be an alterior motive for wanting to bin this marriage 

And very well played bm, he went in to consolidate reduced contact and interference from her, and came out having being convinced to unblock his phone to her as she might need to contact him directly in an emergency. Yes we all know what constitutes emergencys to hcbm hey. 

I can't even, just no. I told him last night that it is him who's going. Me n bd are staying right here. His idea is he will move into the annexe /extension. I've said mars is too close right now sunshine nevermind next door so think again. Stayed in my room all day so he really needs to get gone pronto