A interesting thing happened today
So today I knew I was going to take my kids a special event later in the evening and a friend of mine got me an the kids 3 tickets so the DH says I should take the SD I told him it wasn't me that got the tickets. I also had somewhere to go earlier this evening and he wanted all of us including her and him to come well he had to leave and pick up our daughter from school (i in the meantime talked to the SD and told her i wasnt going she was fine just as long as she wasn't alone. Idk why she needs the DH or me at home with her she 19.) when he got back I told him I didn't need to go he also had something to do in the same area so I told him that and he got sad he really wanted all of us to go whatever so he sat around sad til I left..... . More tomorrow.
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My DH used to do that too. If
My DH used to do that too. If I had plans with my family he always wanted me to take SD along. She was an adult too so it wasn't that we didn't want any kids going but she doesn't really fit in with my family. She is also very negative about my family and judgemental. Who wants someone like that around when you are just trying to relax and let loose. DH's don't get it. We like some time to ourselves with our friends or family without the step crap stuff in our face. grr
I use to feel so alone. Glad
I use to feel so alone. Glad I started bloggin. I appreciate u sharing your story thank u. If you don't mind teling me how did you deal with that sittion because for me I just hate the feeling of tension and anxiety SD and my Mother don't really get along and it use to bother me because my mom was and is still helping her but she likes my moms cousin better thann my mom and the cousin hasn't done anything for her. DH like that too he licks ass on the people who don't do nothing for him but if do things for him straight up jugemental and non appreciate I don't get it....I've stopped trying to get it but it would b nice to know why. And yes we all need a break from the step children drama but a lot of times my selfish DH don't think so however I'm can't and I'm not her caretaker and I will and do find my breaks from them ha. I still feel good.