So yesterday sd 19 quit her job cause she ya know I don't know why we have buses and she got friends. She has been here 7 months and just now getting an id 3 days ago. Before I was disengaged I really wanted to help id have made it so she could have done better but sd and dh luv to wait til the last minute to do things oh and he stopped working because he claimed he didn't have a ride to work but all before he was walking or asking folks to take him to and fro work. I asked him why he was so anxious to get car back cause um him and her can get rides me and my daughter have to walk. He said something smart so disengaged. It is still hard disengaging but I can see now somethings I couldn't before like how much she was taking advantage of me and my mom and how dh sat back and watched and didn't do a damn thing. I watched how different he treats my kids which are ours to his child I watch him and the princess and she is truly daddy's princes when she leaves life can get back to normal hopefully if not then he can join her I've given enough of my time and energy to this useless problem I have going on in my life. It is time to move on. I am slowly realizing that I deserve so much better. Oh and he is moppy and down but only cause she went to the library when she get back her and him will be giggling and watching movies without a xare in the world ill be anywhere else in the house :).