So yesterday sd 19 quit her job cause she ya know I don't know why we have buses and she got friends. She has been here 7 months and just now getting an id 3 days ago. Before I was disengaged I really wanted to help id have made it so she could have done better but sd and dh luv to wait til the last minute to do things oh and he stopped working because he claimed he didn't have a ride to work but all before he was walking or asking folks to take him to and fro work. I asked him why he was so anxious to get car back cause um him and her can get rides me and my daughter have to walk.

Well yesterday I had to put my car in the shop and dh freaked out it is our only car and he has to work tomorrow now let me explain we have another vehicle that needs a little work he won't fix it and sd has to work friday. I would freak out to if I had sat around for a whole MONTH not trying to find a plan b because my car needs work and id like to keep my car running as long as possible.

I didn't win the war yet but I finally (again) talked to dh abut adult sd I had stopped talking to him about her and I took his advice I took my medication and we talked and he wanted to deflect reflect and accuse but this time I played it cool and let him finish and I told him find another way to interact with sd it make me uncomfortable he said I was silly and my feelings were wrong I said okay my mom want her place back help her move out by the end of month and I tol him after he dropped the j word (jealous) that if you don't find a better way of showing affection to her we are through.

Im sure my titles will get better as i get use to blogging and so forth lol that's not the story this is...About 4 months ago the Sd been her for about 2 and a half months then. Well i was new about how to voice my opinion about her to the dh and how he would react, anyway i had been telling him somethings because this was shortly after the incident of her sitting on his lap at one of my relatives house she is 19.