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frustrated 1's picture

:? So it is early in the morning dh said he going grocery shopping and for day 2 in a row he go get the sd19 sheget her happy go lucky ass up and go if I had 3 wishs 1. Sd get a life 2. Get a life with friends your on damn age 3.get a life friend and the f out my house. I have never never liked clingy people they like a sweaty shirt. I've never been like that my parents are divorced they dvorced when I was 16. I never felt the need to be all up and under them my dad the ass that he is ling story still gave me enough dignity and respect to treat me as a person I don't know what type of relationship they go going on but I really stopped hanging with my parents when I was 16 I enteracted with them but I had friends and a boyfriend sooo.... I dont know but I do know it irratating as fu that she think she can go everywhere with me but can't get aling with the people in my circle that why she better catch up with daddy fo he leave cause I did it and she to be honest wasn't and still isn't appreciative. You can get your ass up and go but can't cook nothing at home she work in fast food she can cook and she wont clean up her Temporary room with smells like a pig killing factory that been set on fire ug and she wont take care of her dog she'll feed it but that is it. But I b damned if I d anything for the poor animal we told her no pets so of course she con daddy into getting one. I don't know how to work this while being disengaged to get this sd19 from hell out my house and still keep it pleasent between dh me and my mom.

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frustrated 1's picture

Oh I didn't wanna go grocery shopping anyway but i just feel like there's plenty to do and she sd just won't do it cause dear old dad wont ball up and tell her no or make her like he scared of this child pisses me the f off AHHHHHHHH it make me dislike her and resentful to him and of course he can't see ish and ish stank it ain't easy to ignore I feel like I'm in limbo waiting for hwr to get her life right so she can get the f out.

RedWingsFan's picture

Unfortunately, it appears that DH is enabling little princess and making life with him so appealing that she's unlikely to leave and become responsible for herself anytime soon.

Until DH puts his foot down and stops treating her like a little kid, she's gonna continue to act like one and be dependent and in your home.

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frustrated 1's picture

Hmm what do i do to stop this horrific behavior of his............nothing you cant make people do anything but if i could just get a little stratey...i got a story to tell and maybe this will give a little more background and insight.

RedWingsFan's picture

I put my foot down with DH from the get-go when I saw him treating SD14 like a little mini wife. I told him I wouldn't stand for that and if things didn't change drastically, I'd be gone.

So, he decided that a life with me was more appealing than spoiling the shit outta his kid. I pointed out in article after article how babying kids does NOT help them in the long run. I pointed out her mini wife behavior and how it hindered her growth and maturity. I worked with him to force her out of her comfort zone and foster her independence from him.

Bottom line, he's a father now, not an enabler.