Dh is seeing more of the light and SD19 is getting more independant and im loving that. She wasn't fired (see being disengaged i don't have to know everything and frequently i don't get her work dates right because i don't have to know See im learning more and more about this disengaged miraculous breakthrough i luv it. That goes on with her and now she doesn't tell that much thank god)and she gave me and her dad a sob story on Sunday after she got off of work yea she found a ride to work) about how they didn't put her on the schedule this week but last night she tells us that she'll be working tonight.....uh huh see a little push and the birdie will fly. Im a little happier now i can almost feel like life is getting back to normal.