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Submitted by fedupstepdad on Mon, 02/15/2010 - 8:47am

I really just dont have the strength to get into it but lets just say for most of you out there dreading the times you have SK for vacation...well thats what im going through right now and it pains me to say this but im praying the week flies by...I truly cannot stand being around this other person my wife turns into when SK is around...especially sincee we just had a beautiful weekend without her...pray for me lol

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Submitted by soverysad on Mon, 02/15/2010 - 8:48am

Prayers fedup. I wish I had some advice for you.

"A pessimist complains about the wind, an optimist counts on the wind changing, a realist adjusts his sails"

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Submitted by Storm76 on Mon, 02/15/2010 - 9:01am

All I can suggest is focus on your other kids, and let your wife get on with SD. If you guys are having fun they may well want to come join in with you, but it will have to be on your terms.

"God never gives us more than we can cope with, I just wish he didn't have such faith in me!"

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Submitted by fedupstepdad on Thu, 02/18/2010 - 10:12am

Thanks all and while mani/pedis are the way to go i'm sure...i'm a guy and not really into that lol. Football is over and i have just the gym and a few friends as outlets...sadly though this week has been excruciating as each day has led to bigger and bigger fights with the wife. Last night I told her I couldn't do this anymore and that i've been fighting a fight that she doesn't care about anymore which is us and our marriage. She said "Shes my daughter what do you expect me to do, take your side over hers?" I just exploded (not in front of the kids of course, in private) but I told her that i'm done with this...she went on her own tirade and stated "We should have never gotten married!" I just looked at her...all the kids we have and all of the happiness we've experienced (I swear to you our ONLY problem in this world is SD, we fight about NOTHING else). I said to her "that statement you just made tells me you don't give a FUCK about your other children, because if it was just you and I involved in this "marriage" then that is one thing but to me saying you wish you never got married means you wish you didn't have these other kids and that to me is unforgivable...