I have been a step mom for over ten years, and the judge that did the custody battle for my husband was not in his right mind. He (mind you, over ten years ago) left both parents with joint custody with no desiginated primary. My SS spends one week with us and one week with his mother, rotating. His schooling was designated to remain in the elementary school he was attending and every subsequent school thereafter. The ex decided to relocate to another county three years ago, but we kept him in the court ordered school, now this past summer we moved out of county also. Since both his mom and my husband work in the same town as his school, we didn't think it would be a problem with his school remaining as it was as stated in the court order. Unfortunately, we just found out when we went to get his new class schedule, that the ex disenrolled him from the school behind our backs and put him in the school for the county she moved too. She's refusing to change it back unless my husband takes her back to court(which we currently can't afford due to the move) and the school he was attending as court ordered is full, although they stated if we could get a new court they would see. Also, my husband called the school she tried to put him in, which is over an hour from our residence, and they said she would need a court order to put him in there. So she messed up both schools for him! And no one has the money right now for a lawyer! I'm just at a loss. I have had to deal with harrassing phone calls, her showing up at my husbands job to cry on his shoulder that I'm not the person he thinks I am and I have had enough.